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| I am an interesting collision of components in the BDSM potpourri, and they seem to go together like popcorn…but I happen to like popcorn, and it is my popcorn, so here we go.
Communication is key. Critical. Brass tacks and all that. I attempt to communicate well in a no-nonsense manner. Sometimes, I actually come close to achieving my ideal in this regard. Sometimes I fall short. Nevertheless, I believe communication is the only way we can achieve trust.
I am a creator, an artist. I work behind the scenes in show business and create experiences on the grand scale for the masses - (probably even you at some point!) I’ve toured with rock bands and been halfway around the world. Smoke and mirrors and the Man Behind The Curtain…that’s me. Much of what I enjoy about show business, besides the great friends I have EVERYWHERE, is the ability to transport the audience to different places, to mold their experience, to lift them up, and take them back down. Not entirely unlike my kink…read on…
I have been a rock climber for 20+ years, and a rigger longer than that. I have a love affair with rope, always have. The handling of rope, the feel of differing textures, how a rope lays, and coils, and ties. The natural beauty of a well-tied knot is the definition of art. How I can create art in seconds, and just as quickly, destroy it, is beautiful to me. I have a passion for rope bondage and am developing my skills in suspension and predicament bondage. I know ropes very well and have a good working knowledge of knots.
I notice the little things. Detail often missed by others. Composition in a picture. The color of lichens on the rock. The tiny flowers in the desert. A ripple on the water’s surface. I look beyond what is immediately visible, seeking what is hidden in plain sight. I am a hands-on, tactile person, who is thrilled by touch, craves touching and being touched.
I am a true appreciator of a woman's hip-to-waist ratio. That's what does it for me, every time. That's what proves she is a woman, and excites a primal urge within me. I enjoy exploring a woman – by touch, by sight, by smell, by taste – and most of all, her mind. An intelligent, well-spoken woman, who is strong in her daily life, yet able to be submissive to me has my complete attention. There may be no greater pleasure than getting inside a woman’s head, learning what she likes and dislikes, having my way with her far more intimately than sex.
Some kinky things I enjoy…the tools in my toolbox, as it were: spanking, caning, whipping, figging, plugging, teasing, tormenting, hooking, tying, suspending, scaring, comforting. Taking a woman to the edge of her pain / pleasure threshold, making her dance to my stings, making her orgasm and collapse, even wet herself; these are the best things in life. I enjoy sharing trust, and earning that trust, and proving over and over again that I earn that trust every day – yet seeing the frightened look in her eyes when she is at my mercy and damn well knows it. She trusts me, and yet, I’m on a roll, and she knows that too. Ah, the good times. I enjoy eyes. People and other animals can be read by their eyes. Subtle emotions and feelings that may not even be conscious are shown in the eyes. My favorite thing is to hold my lover after a session and read her eyes - all the pain, the love, the trust, the agony of being transparent to me radiating from her eyes - while I gently envelop her in my arms and give her my trust and love in return.
I am dominant about a great many things. I am quite dominant in my career, and my home life follows. I can also be quite adaptable and flow with change like a river. I don’t like some surprises, yet enjoy others, go figure. My skills as a situational fireman are exceptional. I can be quite clear about what I want in life, yet take great pleasure in having a woman who can take the bull by the horns when necessary. Specifically, if I want to fuck her ass, I will…but it sure is pleasing when she offers her ass to me before I have to take it. Or better still, climbs over me and impales herself for my pleasure. I will hold her down and have my way when taking is needed, but the gift of giving oneself is immeasurable. I want a woman to desire to please me – as much as I desire to please her. More often than not, this doesn’t involve sex. I believe it is the little things we do for each other as people that makes the difference in our quality of life on a daily basis.
I am very decisive when I want or need to be, yet enjoy taking the time to ponder the really important decisions – such as what cuisine to enjoy for dinner. This might take a few minutes, so I savor the luxury of time. I don’t always have this luxury of time and must make do with what there is. I enjoy cooking and eating all manner of cuisines. I grill like a madman – charcoal only please, I cook with gas in the kitchen – and enjoy creating sauces and soups from scratch. How I got from being decisive to cooking, I have no idea. Cooking for me is so organic, so on the fly, that I can’t describe it as decisive at all. Far more a process in flux, than an exercise in decision making.
I enjoy outdoor activities very much, and these vary between saltwater fishing, snorkeling, rock climbing, hiking, canyoneering, camping, and outdoor cooking. I am constantly torn between the mountains and the ocean. I love to travel and I love exploring. A potpourri of things, just like everything else about me.
I am seeking a submissive, fit, woman, who wants to explore her limits in the Atlanta area. You must have a picture of your face and one of your body available to be considered.
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