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My name of course comes from Dances with Wolves and is the name of the Indian female lead. I am not saying I came up with the name and some were infuriated I didn't give credit to the writer so forgive me. I have tried changing it as I have on but Collarme is such a poor site there is no way to do it other than deleting the entire profile. I am an alpha submissive! Confused and think it's an oxymoron? Nope!! I am just a strong submissive who knows what she wants and is submissive only to a Dominant male. Do you wish a Kentucky thoroughbred loves to be stimulated intellectually, have witty conversations and isn't afraid to test your tenacity, patience and show her that you are a true Dominant in nature? Be honest to the bone with nothing held in secret but that which she will not ask due to respect for you? I am Ladyhawke . I'm a chemist! I love long intelligent conversations and smart mature men who have interesting eclectic liberal tastes. Sorry, I do not believe in the trinity. This is it! Make the most of your years on earth. There is no lollipop at the end of life. A children's myth made up to encourage proper behavior. So I am good for nothing! I do good not for any reward after life but for the mature aspect of doing it for humanity and noble reasons alone! . I am a very loving submissive woman but when she needs to be strong, is! Do you need a good morning and to know someone everyday wants, with getting to know you, how you are, what you are going through, a hug or knowing someone does care then let me know. I know what it is to think no one cares. are. If you are one of those who just needs to reach out and grasp a hand until that special one comes along I am here. If you wish a woman for your sexual needs alone then stop reading. And lastly if you do read further, find with time on getting to know me and find it is true what I said then please don't go Poof! LOL Let me get to know you and the same for getting to know me I am a diamond in the rough but am truly priceless in fidelity, being not influenced by material goods and abhor an ego monger or loud boistrous man. I have a wonderful ability to listen and console if need be I converse with wit, intelligence, compassion and logic are Dominants I seek.I can always bring a smile on even the emotional rainiest day. But alas I am very talkative but also can listen for hours with my chin cupped in my palm. I am a degreed chemist with logic and not a bling bling girl who uses "like" over and over again. If you want to see a peer who has an opinion like me about who I am see http://www.lablit.com/article/6! I am older, more sensible and logical than young women. I know what to do if you are having a stroke and won't ask why you are winking at me! LOL I am a "seasoned" thoroughbred originally from the great state of Kentucky. Sure I have had my trials and hardships but they have brought me to the strong sub I am. You at one time in your life I guarantee will need a strong submissive mind when life hits you in the gut and brings you to your knees. You will need someone to help you stand up when down on your knees and pull you up. If you use "no drama queens" in your profile then you haven't experienced the vast "male drama queens" in the D/s lifestyle!! I bring intelligence, laughter and thinking outside the box to the friendship. Also since I am a techie of left brain laden activity I write erotica which I hope to publish soon. So you can see I am an eclectic little imp loving quests and challenges.As a researcher all my life I love solving problems. Got one, let me know. LOL If not, and you have no desire for one such as me, then I hope for your success in finding the "one", the courtesan princess of your dreams! I am hoping to find someone who is like myself and fulfills these, at least some. LOL A. An alpha male B. A wonderful conversationalist C. You have to know who Andrea Bocelli is D. Can reverberate when you use rrrrrr's LOL E. Cannot do the magic eye in the cartoon section of the Sunday paper F. Does not have a buff picture of yourself as your Avatar G. Only have "submissive women" as wants, I don't have a switch bone in my body. LOL H. Loves to laugh and a great conversation is more satisfying than a buffet I. Does NOT use "u" for you in messaging J. Knows a mind is a terrible thing to waste, that is besides mine! LOL K. Has a more interesting past than mine so I experience vicariously travel and careers L. Is secure in his own skin M. Can get down on one knee to speak to a child and stand tall to make your opinions known with integrity and tenacity N. Likes the quiet and doesn't need to vocalize loudly thinking it proves you more right. O. Doesn't mind more than two sentences in responses P. Thinks the biggest sexual organ on a female is her brain Q. Loves big dogs and likes to be around or has pets R. Still wants to take college classes or any class to stretch your intellectual prowess S. Is better at vocabulary and makes me run to the Wikipedia in discussions T. Hasn't stopped reading these yet! U. Sees being stubborn and confrontational at times as an attribute:):) V. Appreciates a beautiful mind more than a beautiful silhouette W. Wishes to know smart subs and finds them fascinating X. Won't go poof after a long friendship without a good reason and closure! Y. Not judgmental or prejudicial in any discussions and realizes to know someone and call them a true friend takes time and exchange of personal experiences, philosophies and beliefs Z. Shows respect and uses polite language in addressing me please! I know this is a very unusual profile but I am a very unusual and rare find in friendship and femininity. Best of luck to all of you. SWF