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About Me, the Female of a 2 Dom household
First of all I am Polyamourous. I am also Painfully Honest, and Probably my own worst critic. Yes, I have issues, everyone does, but I try my best to live my life to the fullest, take those I love into consideration, and not spread Drama.
I see life as having 2 choices, One can take another step down the path of life, or one can whine, and give up, going nowhere. I am interested in movers, those who want to take that next step, those who want to experience life in a safe sane and consensual way, not just sex, ALL that LIFE has to Offer!
About Him
Who Am I?
So, who am I? That's a silly question. None of us know who we are.
What can I tell you in this space that you would take the time to read? Not enough. I'm too complicated for that.
Looking for labels to make this easy. Well, let's see...
I checked the plumbing and figured out I'm male.
I've played with both genders and really only get enjoyment from playing with women, so, we'll call that heterosexual.
At this point, I start to run afoul of labels.
I am drawn to certain types of submissives and feel a powerful urge to protect, lead, and teach. Does that make me a dominant? Maybe.
I can subordinate (every soldier, sailor, airman, and Marine can, it's what sets us apart from simple warriors) but I don't submit well. OK, I haven't found anyone that inspired me to submit. So, am I not a submissive? Maybe.
I don't respond well to pain. Well, that's a perspective issue. I think I respond perfectly well to pain. Those in my nearby proximity would disagree. Have disagreed.
It would seem that I am not a masochist.
Except that I love deep tissue massages. The kind that I have to fight the urge to respond violently because it hurts so much.
So, maybe I am a masochist.
I'm in touch with my primal side. I have my share of rage and anger stored inside and like to let it out during sex. It's not as easy as I would like (thanks for nothing Alan Alda), but I'm getting better.
But, primal is more than violence, biting, snarling, etc. during sex. Some sexual responses to that primal force go the other way. Some people's response to the violence inherent in humans is to submit (if you can't beat them, seduce them and get them to protect you).
Isn't that a primal response? Aren't they primal as well?
Am I primal? Maybe.
So, I'm not sure what I am. I'll keep looking. There's a few couch cushions I haven't checked. Maybe my label is there.
We both believe that there is no such thing as Primary and secondary for OUR relationships to work, We encourage everyone to be the best they can be, and accept the faults that we all have. No one person is more important than another when you are all in a relationship. Master is not ABOVE slave, they just have different roles that make them happy and those roles compliment each other.
Here are a few of the things we really enjoy Mundanely:
- Hiking
- Cooking
- Water Skiing
- Snow Skiing
- Fishing
- Horseback Riding
- White Water Rafting
- Rock Hopping
- Traveling (Love to experience new cultures)
- Surfing
- Roller-coasters
- Shooting
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