Still relatively new to the site. I am seeking a white male, 40 – 50 years old, who is not new to this. A non-married man, who has a normal life and is open to randomly frequent sexual encounters of domination in the bedroom.

One who is looking for more than just to get laid but someone who will make me feel safe and secure in surrendering control too on a long term basis.

I am looking for someone who will use me for his own sexual pleasure and understand pleasing him is what gives me pleasure, hence the reason why trust is key. I am looking for someone who will understand that I need mental security/stimulation before I can surrender myself physically.

I am not on the rapid path to match but want to know that we are on the same path, with the same goals in mind. I am looking for someone who is knowledgeable and ok in guiding and grooming for the best possible situation between us.

I consider myself a “bedroom” submissive. I am looking for more than good sex, I can get laid whenever I choose. I am looking for a Dominant personality, preferably innate, that is strong and firm in his control when we are together. One who can understand that my pleasure is derived from the pleasure I can give him.