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Hi :) My friend told me I should sign up so, here goes.
What am I looking for? Well, first of all, I'm new to this sort of thing but, I've always fantasized about being a slavegirl. I know I don't want anything that drastic but, I do like the idea of being told what to do and punished if I don't. I like to be spanked and played with and I like the idea of bondage.
I have been tied up before but, it was just playing. I don't know if I'm up to serious bondage or not.
I would like a Dom that is gentle of heart but firm of hand. I'm strongwilled and can be quite a handful, but I'm also very loving and loyal.
My friend suggested I not limit my search to just men, even though I'm not bisexual.
OK, enough for now, I'll add more later! :)