100% real as I expect anyone that contacts me to be....

Not new, but always open to learning.

From my perspective on this site, I see a bunch of phonies playing games and trying to stimulate some kind of thing in their own minds. Or guys that pretend to be girls, they are paralyzed to leave their homes.

I would guess that as a female here its a bunch of A-holes that just want a piece of "fuck meat" ( I know there are some girls that like that and that's fine, not my thing) They have no idea of the dynamics that are at play in an open and honest relationship that Might be found here.
The power is shared 50/50 between the Dom and the sub. Till that point that the sub gives themselves to the Dom and a higher form of relationship is possible.