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| Well thanks to JD, I got some feedback that I should come back and take a look at my profile and ensure it was an accurate reflection of me :) Since I wrote this some time ago and haven't been on this site in a long time, here's a bit of a revision to what I'm looking for in a sub and a bit about me. I'm looking for someone that has much intellectual horsepower and can hold her own in any social situation. I can go from Black Tie affair to riding a Harley in the course of a day. I also need someone that is physically active and enjoys working out, outdoor activities, or finding other ways to stay active/fit. That said, when we are behind closed doors or in an otherwise private situation, I need you to go from classy to whore in a heartbeat. This includes many aspects of BDSM. I have many favorite fetishes, and I leverage them in different ways depending on how our personalities interact. Your response to different techniques if often what drives my pleasure. That's not always the case, but often it's the gold standard. I like to take things slow and steady at first (this does not mean lingering in email land). I'm not one that likes to get right to the physical aspects of BDSM. Honestly, I'd like to know what makes your mind quiver at the idea of being a sub and then build on that knowledge to drive the intensity of the physical dimension. My sense is that the greater the interpersonal trust and intimacy, the greater the impact the physical dimension will have on each of us, constantly building over time as we put energy into the relationship.
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