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Greetings everyone and welcome to my newly reformed profile. I am an oldtimer of Collarme (8 years... o_o) who has recently decided to return in hopes to, once again, try and see if what I seek can be found. For now, you may call me Fenris, those who get to know me, will be able to call me by the name behind the box.
VERY IMPORTANT MESSAGE:
I shall be pretty blunt with this statement even though it should be common sense, but just in case. If, for whatever reason, you really don't agree, understand, or able to accept how I live my life or the things I enjoy, then please don't bother wasting my time. I live my life to the fullest and will continue to do so with or without someone to enjoy it with me. Too many people think they can change that and I don't want to waste either of our time if that turns out to be the case.
Where it all began:
Now, since that's out of the way, it's time for a History lesson! (No, seriously.) If anyone knows the history, brief or in detail of the name I chose, you already made it to friend level and I would enjoy talking with you. (Congratulations! *presents a cookie to award winner*)
As for the history about me in this lifestyle and on Collarme, starts a long long time ago. I have been apart of the knowledge of lifestyles for about ten years, while the physical aspect of them has been about seven. I have experienced and trained in many different aspects (including, but not limited to GOR, Puppy/Kitty/Horse play and much more) while learning about them and myself.
What became of all those experiences you wonder? Well, most of it, you'll have to find out on your own. What I will tell you is this; If you are reading this, but are someone that prefers intense pain, being degraded, or just wants to be slapped around. That's not me, and never will be. I am a gentle Dom who, through his own way, handles what needs to be handled. Pain for me does not usually go past such things as spanking, fire play, knife play, wax play, biting, things that can cause pain, but are used preferably for sensory deprivation. I have come to love the enjoyment of bondage, the tantilizing of senses and a continued desire to find a pet of my own.
Does this sound like you?
The future in relationships, yay! Or I suppose it could be labeled, "What are you looking for in a partner?" (Boring!) I search for someone who is kind, loyal, able to enjoy what I enjoy, and most of all, you have to have some kind of a brat in you. (Seriously, what fun is it otherwise? =P) I don't judge based on any of the common denominators, except for female and non-smokers, because that's just the way it is. I am wanting a real relationship to grow from this, and I do mean GROW, because I have no intention of getting married a week after meeting you. I would also like the possibility of children in the future, haven't decided on how many, but that's a time will tell answer. As for an inside/outside differential, there isn't one. You aren't with me 'part-time', so I don't seek out part-time submission, it's a 24/7 situation.
Those with issues, baggage, or drama are still free to message me. For those who try to outcast people with problems, never made much sense to me. We all have our own variety of issues and it is who we are that helps us work around them or helps us because the person we are.
About Me Outside of Me
Yes! It's exactly what it says actually. This is the me that people I work with only know.
I shall begin with the first and foremost important topic about me. I AM A NERD. No, I'm not that type of nerd! Stop thinking that. I am the type who enjoys gaming, be it video games, board games, or card games. *waits for people to quit freaking out.* When you're done trying to judge me for a hobby, I'll get back to garnering your attention. Yes, I play games, the truth is out, I forever shall be shunned by the world! (Ha! I couldn't even type that with a straight face, good times.) They're fun social activities, and I would totally love to find someone who enjoyed them as well.
Music is VERY important to me. If you can't deal with music playing nearly 90% of the time, then you can not deal with me. While my music taste has a very wide range (classical, jazz, rock, rap (very limited), r&b, orchestra, international, and so on), it comes down to me being a musician as well. While it's not the middle of the night, and I still have energy left after working all day or before work, I play the Violin. If you play an instrument as well, that would be great, but not a requirement by any means. All in all, my house is not very quiet except when I'm sleeping.
Animal lovers unite! You do have to enjoy the company of animals. At the moment I only have kitty, but she's attached to me and you may need to fight her for me. =D
Being able to enjoy life outside the home. I'm the type who enjoys to go out often, wether it's planned or spur of the moment. For such very reasons, I hold a constant season pass to the San Antonio Zoo & Sea World. I also go out to the movies, a new restaurant to try, or just go out to walk around. I also try to travel once a year (yay vacation time), so you must be willing to go see places.
THE END
I think that covers the overall aspect of my profile. If you managed to make it through it, then perhaps it caught your eye and you should give me a message. For those that do muster up the courage to message me, please do so with a longer message than "Hi how are you?" Try to make yourself stand out, I won't bite.. least not till after I've met you. ~_^
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