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Domme seeking straight, non-smoking,single male life partner who one day hopefully will also be my sub/slave. You are between the ages of 39-60. (Please respect my wishes and do not write to me if you are younger or older.)

The man I seek is accomplished and has his own life and is passionate about something meaningful to him. He is spiritual, understands loyalty and integrity and knows how to have fun.And yes you have a good sense of humor and enjoy the ironies of life. Ideally you have many skills to take good care of me. These might include but are not limited to house painting, housekeeping, great chef, massage and pet care.

You revel in service and in your ability to keep your Domme happy. And in return know that I will provide safety and structure. I value your service above all else and you will be rewarded.
I am into love and the mental aspects of D/s, not into pain. No humilation seekers, maso or sissy boys need apply. Please be masculine acting and sounding.
I am into transformation, the ability we have together to be who we really are and the healing aspects of that for both parties.
If any of this sounds correct to you send a bio and picture for consideration.And please no penis pics, 3rd person yada,yada or demands.
Thank you for reading this posting and God bless.
12/9/2003 4:25:54 AM
From recent experience I am beginning to think that searching for a lifepartner based primarily on sexual preference is a losing proposition. I have nothing in common with many I am meeting except for our interest in D/s and it is not enough for me. To have a sucessful relationship 2 people must share similiar world views, goals and dreams. Maybe the narrow focus on sexual preference is what dooms most of these relationships from the start. There seems to be alot of people switching partners all the time.This is not for me. For all practical purposes I have stopped my search for now. Have I given up hope? Absolutely not! If the universe wants to assist me in co-creating the correct person in my life it will happen. So I am handing it over to my higher-self, God, whatever you want to call it for now. That seems more correct for me on so many levels. And yes, I believe that God is everywhere including the Internet so it could happen from a site like this. But I am no longer willing to initiate contact or to spend time in pursuit of an ideal that may not make me happy in the long run. I am more interested in who someone is than a list of sexual yada yada.That means nothing to me. When I see those lists it makes me feel like a waitress taking someone's order. Most of these profiles don't strike me as human beings who want to fully engage with another on all levels. They are laundry lists which imo are self limiting. I ask for much and am prepared to give back that amount of energy and more in return. Isn't that what real power exchange is about? I wish all who read this luck in finding what gives you joy.
10/30/2003 10:52:45 AM
The journey continues.... I do not understand why some would list me on their "favorites" and not write. It makes no sense to me since it seems to be a no pressure thing to email. (sigh) I don't bite(unless you like that) and mostly respond to all appropriate emails. I am not the leather/costumed, hostile, man hating Domme. To me this is not about externals but about who we are deep inside. It is about being able to mirror the greatness of a human being. Perhaps my profile is too positive and that is why some list me but don't write. Who knows????
10/11/2003 1:04:10 PM
The more emails I receive the less likely it seems anyone takes their search seriously. Typo's and inconsistancies abound. One age in a profile and a different one in an email. I have a bs meter 10 miles wide. Today it has gone off at an alarming rate reading my emails from this site. It is disappointing that so many have so little respect for Mistress's time and send these half hearted attempts. Communication in relationships is key and so far no one seems to get this. Your ability to express who you are is very important. Without it "we" cannot exist. If you see we have something in common state what that might be otherwise you are wasting my time and yours. Make the connections or do not email me please.
10/10/2003 6:30:06 PM
I will never understand how someone will email you with just one word "Hello"... This is a waste of time. You have disregarded my profile instructions and shown me your disobedence. Why would I want someone who already indicates they are incapable of following instructions? Or maybe they cannot read...How sad indeed...
FemDomJadeSteel
 
 Age: 24
 London, United Kingdom