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I find it interesting that so many Doms have such a hard time finding a sub when available subs outnumber Doms dramatically. There have been a few I've spoken with who seem very sincere, knowledgeable and likeable, yet somehow they remain alone. Granted, it takes chemistry... and I'm sure there are just as many fake and "wannabe" sub and slaves as there are Doms and Masters. It's difficult enough to make a good match with someone in the vanilla world... this lifestyle has the potential to make that easier on some levels, but certainly more difficult on others. Take away the arrogance of many and the unrealistic expectations of others... and I still maintain that there are many Doms out there who should be able to find their "other half" without difficulty.
In my experience... which is relatively limited, I admit... I venture to say that many Doms just don't know a good thing when she comes along!! What are you all looking for exactly? It is surely not what you ask for in your profile, because when a girl meets those criteria exactly, you still seem fickle.... it isn't the right time (after you've expressed considerable interest) - or you accept the opportunity to get to know each other... and yet you can't devote your time or attention away from searching for others long enough to actually GET to know her....
Please Sirs.... with all due respect... what's a lady to do? There are some of us who are sincerely looking to devote ourselves to you... all you have to do is open your eyes and take us seriously.
*** This is obviously not directed at those of you who only pose as Doms or Masters and have no real idea what a sub or slave has to offer or possess any understanding of the depth of her commitment once she finds her "One"*** |
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I am back. So the story goes... I find that every relationship helps make me who I am destined to become. I love, I learn, I cry, and I resolve to continue the journey. I refuse to retreat back into the tough exterior I had formed around myself. I want to be vulnerable, exposed and moldable. I will be the first to admit that those things are not easy for me. I'm a strong intelligent woman. I know that not just any Dom will be able to break into that place that is crying out to be captured. It has to be right. And someday it will be. |
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I know many Doms complain about the lack of a response to your emails. I get that... I really do - but on more than one occasion I have responded to emails received from those who, for what ever reason, I'm not interested in, and although I have never been disrespectful, I promptly receive a return email with a very smartass or very crude and rude remark. Some men... even Doms... can't be very adult about even a respectful "No Thank You". So even though I understand your complaints, there really are reasons I may not respond if I don't see that we might be a good match. I'm not trying to be rude or make excuses, its just that the jerks on this site make it harder for everyone else. (interestingly enough, I never get those rude replies on other sites when I say no thank you) Depending on the vibe I get from your email or your profile, sometimes things just seem better left alone - and sometimes...silence is the answer. |
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I appreciate the interest of anyone who finds my profile intriguing... However, I must say that I am seriously looking for a partner. I am not here looking for erotic banter with Doms who live a thousand miles away. I mean no disrespect, but will probably not answer emails from those that are unlikely to be what I am looking for. I prefer to spend my time in good conversation with those who are closer and as serious about finding their one as I am. |
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I have learned so much in the last few months. I owe much of what I have found to the new friends I have made on collar me and other sites. The guidance and support I have found in you have helped me to become the woman/submissive/babygirl that I am today. In each of you I have found a part of who I am. You taught me not to be afraid of my desires, of my secrets, or of my past. You shared with me your experiences and kinks and I learned that an open mind is one's biggest asset in navigating a path through this lifestyle. You are my mentors and my friends... Respectfully, t |
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I wrote in a email today something that I think helps describe what I am searching for and a little more of who I am.
When I speak to a Dom, I feel submissive to him or I don't. I cannot be submissive because he tells me I should. It is a connection that I can't define or predict. There are times I was certain it would be there and it wasn't. Other times, I would be talking to someone and D/s was never even mentioned, but I would feel it. If there IS a connection, I cannot describe the feeling that comes over me. I've only felt it a few times, but it is unmistakable.
I don't know if I will ever REALLY find what I am looking for to be honest. I think the kind of relationship I seek is rare to say the least. To have that complete trust in someone so that he can take me places I've always hidden deep inside of me but could never talk about, much less experience. To have someone who knows exactly how far to push and when to hold me close. Submission is a fire that has been lit and no matter how I try to deny it or turn from it, the embers still burn.
This is not a game, and I'm not interested in players or fancy rhetoric. I am new here and to this lifestyle, but I have a very good picture of what I need and what I have to offer.
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| Age: 29 |
| Hamburg,
Germany |
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