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| Have a sub into domestic servitude but not extreme activities.
Seeking extreme play partners local to DFW into watersports, induced lactation, moderate to heavy impact play and humiliation.
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How exactly does one become an expert at getting massages? It's right there in half the profiles I look at: expert, massage (getting). Conceited much? |
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I wish there was a "minimum weight" entry on this site.
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A word of warning to gamers that are also into bdsm:
Be VERY CAREFUL about how you WORD things in everyday life!
AIM friend: i'm also going to have a dungeon i need broken for your giftmas present
Myself: do what now?
AIM friend: i'm dungeoneering and i need a couple of play groups to break it a couple of times
AIM friend: please?
What followed was some VERY confusing interchange before I realized she was talking about a D&D campaign module, not a bdsm dungeon.
Good times, good times. |
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Was reading up on some things, and found one that talked about Doms getting whipped or otherwise subjected to the treatments they wished to dish out, even if they weren't switches, to know firsthand what they were expecting their subs to endure.
Sounds like solid logic to me, unless my sub/slave already had experience and knew exactly what it felt like. Might inquire about that with my local group sometime. Never thought about that, really. |
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New Year's Resolution: Become more decisive.
I've always had a problem being decisive, mostly because while I'm Dominant I'm also somewhat obsessed with not stepping on the toes of others, and have always looked for some sort of middle ground where I can make my decisions, but do so without upsetting anyone.
This has carried over, unfortunately, into all D/s relationships I've had over the years and makes me far too meek to actually take control of much of anything. I've lived in this fantasy world where I expect subs to submit to me of their own volition rather than needing me to take control of them, and it just doesn't work that way. They want to be dominated and people like myself need to grow a pair and realize that for better or for worse, whether they like what they're told to do or not, they do like being told to do it [within logical reason of course] and that's the role I've chosen to take.
So from here on out I'm going to be more decisive in what I want. And I'm going to see if I can manage this without becoming a bossy prick like I see so many Doms are.
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| Age: 30 |
| Raleigh,
North Carolina |
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