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| Fair warning: This profile is a little lengthy. Sorry about that. Also, if you’re a guy, stop reading now. I have nothing against homosexuality; it’s just not my thing. Please respect that.
In a nutshell: I’m a single, unmarried and currently unattached dominant with no kids living in the Baltimore area. I’m college educated, professionally employed, and have been into kink real-time since 1994. For many years, I was active in the Baltimore and DC BDSM communities, where I held several prominent positions and also taught classes on various kink topics to other groups across the Mid-Atlantic region. Right now, I am no longer active in these communities, for reasons I can expand on later.
Otherwise, I’m a confluence of many things. I’m equal parts jock, gear head, nerd, and artist. I can be sarcastic and sometimes passive-aggressive (I’m working on this). I have a quirky sense of humor. I love animals, especially cats and dogs. I like being personable, but can easily retreat into myself and get quiet when in awkward situations. I have a naturally dominant personality and am a control freak that’s uncomfortable if other people drive me around. I’m direct, sometimes to a fault, and try to be honest at all times, but also don’t like hurting people’s feelings. I’m a veteran of the US armed services.
Interests: I won’t list my kink interests here, because they’re going to vary according to the limits of my partner and the type of submissive that she is. The most important thing is that the power exchange, the transfer of control, is present. Again, this requires further discussion. Beyond that, I’m into movies, travelling, motorcycle riding, sports, history, reading, and photography, among other things.
What I seek: I’m looking for a partner for a monogamous, long-term relationship where D/s isn’t the central focus of the relationship, but is an element of the relationship. There should primarily be friendship, love, affection, trust, attraction, and the desire to spend time together, both in and out of a kink situation. In short, a kinky girlfriend, not a mindless slave. I would prefer a woman 35-45 years of age, college educated, who’s outgoing, independent, witty, and sharp. I don’t want a slave, who I have to instruct to do every little thing. I like a woman who can think and act for herself, and speak her mind in the right situations. She should also be local to me (long-distance never works out). However, this is just an ideal - what really matters is the personality and charm of a woman, which is far more important than the superficial. Also, at the very least, have a completed profile. I took the time to write mine - you should, too.
It’s next to impossible to encapsulate every aspect of a person in one of these profiles. So if anything I’ve said here intrigues you enough to contact me, please do so. Feel free to ask me any questions you might have about who I am, what I want, etc. I’m a completely open book.
Thank you for taking the time to read about me. I look forward to hearing from you.
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