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Ok, let me see if this part of the profile will work. It turned black and I couldn't figure out how to make not be.

Sooo about me ... I'm 43 years old and have been in poly relationship for 10 years now.

I am a switch so that means I can be either on top or bottom. I submit only to one person but am open to bottom depending on the situation. I am more interested in topping. I am bi-sexual so I am open to both male and female.

What am I looking for? hmm Someone is open to being in a poly relationship with us. Someone who is willing to be open minded and willing to explore. Someone who likes to eat. lol (Did I mention that I am a BBW?) Someone is not scared to go out in public either in a vanilla or kinky atmosphere. Someone who is willing to talk and goof around and laugh and love. Not necessarily in that order. :)

What I don't want .. male submissives who think they are worms. I don't like to go fishing so worms do me no good, really. Someone who thinks they want or should try to break up my main relationship. Ain't gonna happen. Someone who is self destructive. No drugs. Drinking is ok. Prefer not smoking. (Irritates the heck out of my allergies)

What will you get in return? Someone who is fiercely loyal, someone who will admit to making mistakes and apologize. A good friend and maybe a lover. Someone who is willing to listen and does her best not to fix everything.

Mostly you will get love and laughter.

Well have a great day!!!

S
8/22/2010 11:54:39 AM
Ok, let me see if this part of the profile will work. It turned black and I couldn't figure out how to make not be. Sooo about me ... I'm 41 years old and have been in poly relationship for 8 years now. I am a switch so that means I can be either on top or bottom. I submit only to one person but am open to bottom depending on the situation. I am more interested in topping. I am bi-sexual so I am open to both male and female. What am I looking for? hmm Someone is open to being in a poly relationship with us. Someone who is willing to be open minded and willing to explore. Someone who likes to eat. lol (Did I mention that I am a BBW?) Someone is not scared to go out in public either in a vanilla or kinky atmosphere. Someone who is willing to talk and goof around and laugh and love. Not necessarily in that order. :) What I don't want .. male submissives who think they are worms. I don't like to go fishing so worms do me no good, really. Someone who thinks they want or should try to break up my main relationship. Ain't gonna happen. Someone who is self destructive. No drugs. Drinking is ok. Prefer not smoking. (Irritates the heck out of my allergies) What will you get in return? Someone who is fiercely loyal, someone who will admit to making mistakes and apologize. A good friend and maybe a lover. Someone who is willing to listen and does her best not to fix everything. And maybe two people that will support and care. Mostly you will get love and laughter. Well have a great day!!! S
7/27/2010 3:31:15 PM
Things are going nuts and I'm loving it. We have a third and possibly a fourth now. But that certainly doesn't mean that I won't stop looking or talking to people, it just means I've got to learn to juggle my time better. lol
7/6/2010 6:30:04 PM
I don't know what is going on with my profile text, so I'll start updating here.
3/10/2008 7:20:42 AM
I really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, however, I guess this needs to be spelled out ... plainly.

I will not get invovled with anyone whose mate does not know what they are doing. Specifically, married men, I understand that your wife doesn't know that you have a "darker desires", but I'm not the one who will help you fulfill them. I'm will not violate your promise that you made to your spouse.

Being Poly isn't a blank check to "hook up" with anyone and everyone. At least not to me. I don't just pick up men (or women) just because. There has to be a connection and an understanding with all parties on both sides of what is going on.

Well, just my thoughts,
Peace,
S
1/23/2008 11:41:45 PM
After taking some time off, for me, I've decided to come back. I hope that I find some friends and people to chat with. I guess we'll see what happens. lol
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