It would be wonderful to meet a female play partner/friend/lover/poly relationship/girlfriend at this point in time with someone ( female only ) who is open to an ongoing relationship. I guess I'm not in a position to engage fully with one person at this time in life, although a primary relationship would be nice, I am in no way looking for 24/7 and playing house together. It would be awesome if you were a switchy type who doesn't take kink too seriously and loves to have fun.

I'd love to share the vanilla sides of life and love, it's not all about kink but kink is a big part of what I enjoy most. This could include going out to the local BDSM clubs or swingers nights or enjoying each others company in the privacy of my home.

I am Bisexual and I have some beautiful people in my life and my relationships with them are non-negotiable. Each one brings me joy and love and friendship and I can only hope to do the same for them in return.

I dont do the cyber thing.. it's not my kink.

If you're overseas, you are too far away.

I would love to meet a voluptuously beautiful woman to share lustful adventures with, of course this would begin with friendship and common interests.

I'm not looking for a woman who wants to use me for her male partners jollies. What I would like is a woman to share intimate, loving, kinky time with.

Send me a message if you want to know more.

Really not looking for a submissive/slave male at the moment, I have enough to play with.

Thanks anyway :)

I am not seeking any form of 24/7 relationship or white picket fences and moving in together to play house. I need my independence and space. I have several play partners and very close friends with benefits and my relationships with them are non-negotiable. I am poly. I will not ever be monogamous, no matter how marvelous you think you are, it will always take more than one person to fulfill my needs. That's just me - I'm a difficult woman.

Probably time to add some bits and pieces here, considering some of the messages I have received it appears that some clarification is required.

If Hedonist was an option in the drop down box of roles, I would choose it to describe myself. Sadly I shall remain not applicable until the time comes that hedonists are recognised. Maybe it's just not kinky enough or even too kinky for the current kink climate.....who knows?


So basically I'm looking for a Top who is comfortable with a relationship that keeps me bound and also allows me the freedom to explore with others. I love to play, call it my hobby if you like and sometimes others share kinks that my primary relationship can't fulfill. That's more than OK with me, I do not expect any one person to be able to fulfill all my needs.

Look at it this way, you may wish to spend a leisurely Saturday arvo fishing with your mates and I would enjoy spending that time fisting with my friends. Pragmatic I may be, realistic definitely :)


Ideally seeking someone who inspires me mentally and turns me on in a primal and feral way and has the ability to set my innermost perversions free in a comfortable, relaxed, fun and caring environment. Before any of that stuff can occur a certain level of trust needs to be established, more likely in a vanilla sense than a kinky one What I'm trying to say here is that I think it's uber important that we actually like each other with clothes on and can enjoy a coffee and talk for several hours or snuggle on the couch like real people do - It's not all about kink for me - there has to be more than that to create the chemistry required to delve into the kinky deviance. Too much to ask - probably - but if I don't risk putting the whole truth out there all I risk is being disappointed and unfulfilled.


Anyway..

I've been around BD&SM for a while now and have reached a point where I know what I enjoy and what doesn't spin my wheels. That being said new experiences are always on the cards however I know my limits and I'm happy to say that my boundaries are well thought out and healthy for me.

Being Bisexual, I've lived with and loved women and men equally during my life. No matter which gender I happen to be dating, I always have the urge to step back over to the other side. One without the other just leaves a little hole in who I am. Being Bisexual also means that I don't play with/fuck/love women for any mans enjoyment. I love women because I love women for myself, not as a dirty fantasy come true for a man.

Sex can be separated from love but not from lust. I cannot separate BD&SM from sex as I see BD&SM as a form of my own sexual expression. Whether or not that involves the conventional definition of sex or not is irrelevant and often it doesn't, but for me it is still a sexual act and at best a sensual one. **This does not mean that sending me a message using the term slut/whore or bitch is appropriate during the initial courtship process**

I enjoy the BD&SM scene for a multitude of reasons. Pleasure,pain,intimacy,intensity,fun,tolerance,acceptance,friendship,lust,playtime,relaxation and freedom first come to mind.

I can play ontop but prefer and most often do play as a bottom. I can go with the flow and switch and change depending on the circumstances. I am not into domination/submission and I dislike being shoved into the submissive pigeon hole simply because I am a woman who plays mostly with men who identify as Tops or Doms. I'm mostly a bottom, I have known this for a long time, please don't bother trying to change that to suit your own needs - that's not gonna happen. I've tried it and am not interested in that type of 24/7 relationship model. Respect that.

I have my weaknesses and imperfections but those that matter and those that care accept that in me and I hope I exhibit acceptance for their imperfections in the same loving way.

In and out of the public scene more often than not, never have I been and probably won't be a consistent member of the 'community' in flesh but always in spirit. I tend to have more fun playing at home or at private parties than at the current kink events so if you're wanting to meet up with me then a coffee date or the Willy Munch is a more likely place to find me.

I'm kinky to the core and my perversions are too long to list. But a pre-requisite is always some form of attraction both mentally and physically to whomever I share kinky or lustful time with. There are lots of kinks I prefer to keep to myself and not share with the FetWorld at large, some things are definitely reserved for those closest to me.

I am currently reviving my body modification kink and am happy to be traveling down that familiar road again, this time with some experience behind me and a greater appreciation of the possibilities available.

Spanking, sensory deprivation, masks, bondage, sensation play and caning are just a few of my all time favorite things. Life without some of those things leaves me unfulfilled.

Although I have mentioned elsewhere that I enjoy perverting the ordinary I also have a full kit of fabulously handcrafted implements of distraction and a wardrobe of sexy and kinky dress-ups. I don't like to limit myself to one genre of play and would prefer that anyone that bothers to respond or send me a message is as multi dimensional as I think I am and that I know my friends are :)


Thanks for wading through the waffling version of my profile. Hope to hear from you soon if you haven't run away screaming already ;)

I'm back on Collarme, single, searching for a mentally balanced kinky bloke within my own age bracket - No older than 50 and no younger than 37. Mostly looking for somone I can share vanilla and kinky life with. Someone to laugh with me and enjoy a bit of silliness and a great and adventurous sex life. Please no heavy drinkers, that means if you drink more than say 2 beers every single day and cant go a day without, then you and I are not made for each other. I enjoy a social drink now and then and at the moment I smoke, but only a few a day, I will give it up, I have done so before. So, If you're real and about 5'8 or above and within the age range above, and have a wicked sense of humour and know how to please a woman and enjoy wining and dining and dressing up to go out and visit kinky clubs and would enjoy exploring this beautiful country we live in then drop me a message and maybe we can do coffee sometime.

I've been around long enough to have worked out that D/s is not my kink, I enjoy S&M and Bondage and playtime without the need to justify it under someone elses version of an acceptable relationship model. I've wasted too much time already trying to fit my square S&M peg into the rounded D/s hole, I'm over it.

Basically what I'm saying is, we can play and maybe I'll let you hurt me, just don't expect me to bow and scape or do the kneeling bullshit. I get off on pain and sex just for the sake of getting off. My true way is probably not your true way but what's mine is mine and what's yours is yours.

This site is a bit limited to which roles one can choose.

Troll me!