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Hello to all,
I am spankey591. I have been in the lifestyle for many years. I hope I will never leave it. :) I am seeking a "lover". Someone who knows how to express themselves in such a way that you know they are loving you or in love with you. As I writer I am an observer also. What I am seeing is a very confused group of young people. Now don't get me wrong. Young people are the life blood of all of us. What seems to be missing is what I seek. I am seeking someone who wants to love another. A person that cares about the person he or she is with. A slave, A Mistress, A Dom'e. To be able to love you must have trust. You will learn to let your boundaries go down. You will be able to let people in and let others hold you and comfort you. BDSM is not about hitting and hurting and training all the time. It is about sharing, caring, holding, comforting, being with, knowing your loves and your lover. It is about laughter and tears and being patient. Presents are things. Yes your sub or slave may give you gifts, but do gifts come first, or does the relationship? People seek to be good Mistresses and Males want to be good Masters. We all meet somewhere in this life and in this lifestyle. Love the one you are with. Make them feel a part of rather than a part from. In so doing the whole will be much stronger, truthful , and will provide more love for both of you. There is always time for visiting Amazon, or Macy's. What drives all of it, every bit of any relationship is love. friendship, and truth. I am seeking the "One". When we merge with one another we all end up with one. BDSM does all of that and much more. For myself I seek the"One".
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