I have basically given up finding my One on CM, but occassionaly stop by just to see....if maybe, just maybe he is here...

Today I open several new contact/messages and one does not have an active profile and two is no longer on CM....Geesh...boggles the mind...

We could all save time if you took the time to read my profile and/or journal....I am no dancing bear and will not be preforming for you online....I am not interested in married and I will not understand why you must stay married or attached.  I am not going to be motivated by threats or attacks on my submissiveness or credibility.  I know my place in this world and it is not under the thumb of someone that has not first, earned my trust.....Good grief...

Hummmm, I have been told several times I needed to (re-vamp my profile)...take out the seeking One on one and be willing to share, and be shared alike....Rightttt, Like that is going to happen....

 I understand that I am not everyone's cup of tea...nonetheless, I am still a cup of tea...

Wonder why One person needs multiple profiles???  hummm wonder if they have multiple personality disorder???  

Okay is it probably just me that feels this way...but I really do want to see someone's eyes and their smile before I see their explicit body parts.....subtle is the word I am looking for...Geesh

Hummmm,

 A. Disappear/hangup when online chatting or on the phone, without notice and don't come back for days....and then acts as nothing is wrong.

B. Not very optimistic about relationship being worthy of long-term.

C. They can travel to see you but you do not have to go to the trouble of meeting up with them in their hometown...Yep, what I thought, another married man looking for a hook-up.  Sighhhh

Wow, why bother to even complete a profile if it is not going to be read???  Not into multiples, not into women, not into married or otherwise attached M/D....I want a One on one relationship without all the drama...."I want a lover that won't drive me crazy."  Guess I may as well be looking for a needle in a haystack....sighhhhhhh

What's with all the women checking my profile out and e-mailing....You cannot be any clearer than I have been on my profile and journal...Not the least bit interested in other women, and if your shopping for your One, you can forget it....

I appreciate that you like my stockings, but they are pretty generic and should be relatively easy for you to pick up a pair at Victoria's Secret.  Geesh

OKAY-this place makes me crazy sometimes:   I received a nice e-mail, read it, looked his profile over and found that this was a Married D/seeking a lifetime sub to live with him and his wife.  I thanked him for the offer and declined.  He wrote back stating his wife did not approve of his lifestyle, would not be participating in any scenes, but he had no intentions of ever ending his marriage. He further stated my only dealings with his wife would be cleaning/shopping/taking and picking up the children, pretty much her assistant during the day, and his slut at night. Again I declined,  Well then I received pic's of him and his lovely home, Needless to say, I did not bother to respond.  Tonight I got a message from him claiming I was not a true sub, with a desire to please a M/D.  I suggested if he really wanted that position filled to consider two women, one for his wife, and one for himself....both slaves...

OMG am I the only one that has problems with this "MASTER," asking for a sub???? Geezh, at a minimum this D/ is looking for a m/s and depending on the lowly slave to not only take care of him in the style to which he has become accustomed, but also service and care for his buds...AND YES I am sure there are women on here with the same kind of profiles and I still say, whichever/whomever. I find it to be demeaning to this lifestyle...NOT TO MENTION FALSE ADVERTISEMENT...BEWARE OF THE TRAVELING MASTER....

Today when I logged in, the profile that came up on my CM homepage was a Master seeking a rich sub to financially keep him in the style to which he had become accustomed...

In Return, he will humiliate and beat her daily, lock her in a cage, fist her, and bring another friend or two to an occasional sex party, for her to also service...hummmm  Please tell me that I am not the only one that has problem with this???

Wow, Just Wow....

OMG, I am so not interested in joining a couple, no married or attached, not looking for a mentor/teacher, and I will not be joining a poly household.  I am not going to cyber with you, or send you explicit pic...Really my profile is clear so don't bother wasting your time or mine if the shoe fits...

Okay, so I added this pic of my leg ,and yes I have a matching set....lol....Well needless to say, the youngsters have no idea that older women can have decent legs too.  While I love the compliment let me say one more time....I am not looking for a youngster but my One....I envision that he will be near my age and share most of the likes/loves that I described in my profile....

I am not interested in crude/rude Dom's, not looking for a hook-up, and all the couples can forget it...."I will be the only woman in my One's  bed."  Ladies, while you may be very attractive and a treat for sure, you are not this belle's cup of tea.  Move on ladies, your starting to spook me good and Halloween has not even got here.

I promise I am working hard to catch up on the mail, but there are just so many hours in a day. Please, please, please, if you have a whip, cage, some needles, or knives waiting for me, you are wasting your time and mine....I am not now, or will I ever be interested.  

Sorry for the delay in repying to those who have messaged me, so many to view and sort thru.   To help save time, please note that POLY IS A DEAL BREAKER, To have me I WOULD BE A ONE AND ONLY!!!!!!   Also, I am not a PAIN SLUT as some here choose to call that pursuit of joy.

Hope that this clarifies and saves some of you the effort.