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	I have met my lady.... I need no other. we are both embarking upon a journey of exploration. What a lucky git i am.... Bye all xxx HI i'm Sam.... I have two things that i live by.... 1. The Sub has all the ultimate control and power at the start of any new relationship. But a power shift takes place given time and trust. 2. I believe in respect and manners for all. So now a bit more about me I'm a chap who knows what he likes and knows to go and get it. I have a good job and enjoy a wide and varied life. I am a dom but i always respect the sub as they always have the real power in any D/s relationship at the start. I am not into pain or abuse but rather i'm into pleasure and exploring the corners of a persons mind to see just what they will do and how far they will go to please and experience new feelings. Finally sorry about my bad spelling...i blame Bill gates my self. Two more things about me that you might like.. I have eyes this colour And finally yes i do fly that thing in my pic. Thanks for reading this and hope to chat soon. Sam

12/9/2009 12:51:57 PM

Why do we do this?

Most submissive people want to feel things rather than just existing.

What do you want to feel?

Do you really know?

Do you want to feel really alive?

Please say hi if you want to experience something out of the ordinary.

if you are looking for the standard beating from a whip or cane them i wish you luck but i'm not for you.

Sam x

11/30/2009 12:49:46 PM

I recently did something on CM that not many men do. I sat down and talked (as mates) to a sub on here about what life is like.

Now this lady is very sexy and has some great pics.

She logged on and showed me the crap she gets everytime. Within 10 mins she had 30 emails. Most had not read her profile and most were just so bad that they stand about as much chance of getting a reply as does Gordon Brown have for being PM at the olympics.

So firstly i wish to say sorry to all the good women out there who get such crap from men. And secondly do you have any tips on how to cut through the crap....the good guys get dragged down with the bad.

S x

11/23/2009 1:02:24 PM

Me again,

where have all the nice people gone.

I used to be able to chat on here for hours with some great people but not any more and i can't figure out why?

have i been given the black spot or is a different type of person now signing up for this site?

Any ideas are most welcome.

Sam

9/1/2009 11:23:08 AM

Evening all,

So here is something i have found on CM...

A lot..and i mean a lot of subs say they are collared or have found the one..only to say that he was a fake a few weeks later.

Is it in the nature of a sub to be so trusting..?

What say you all

8/4/2009 11:38:39 AM

HI all

I'm back on here now looking for that elusive person...

I've been away recently recovering after an accident i had...but I'm just about better now.

So old and new friends please come say hi.

Sam xx

7/22/2009 10:48:19 AM

So here is what i've found so far..

Most men are on here for a shag...thats all...no matter what they say.

Most women are on here trying to find Mr Right and have a relationship....they are looking for love.

Trying to match up these two things is very very hard and from reading peoples profile it's often doomed to fail from the start.

the sooner people start to realise what they and others really want from this...the sooner they will find what they seek.

What say you all....i am interested to hear your thoughts on what i put here.

S

4/28/2009 2:47:39 PM

Evening all.

Well i'm having an interesting time of things on here so far. Made contact with old friends which is great. Chatting to some very nice Dommes about how they approach life and Ds...very interesting stuff indeed.

My comments below seem to be right on as far as some people concerned...what say you...please let me know.

Sam

4/24/2009 1:15:23 AM

Let me ask you a few questions and see if you know the answers..

1. What turns you on?

2. Do you know why it turns you on?

3. Do you really understand why it turns you on?

An example for you on what i mean.

Some people like to be subbs...why?
Is it because they like to submit to another?
Is it becasue they want to give up control?
Is it becasue they want to have no responsibility for a time?
Is it becasue they want to be wanted and feel they have a purpose and are worthwhile?

Only when you know the reason why you can expand and increase the pleasure.

Sam

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