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SouthernSadist

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Time to update the profile.Lately Ive been noticing My interests venturing toward forced servitude and various non-sexual aspects of play.I must admit that I still miss the Houston BDSM scene greatly :::le sigh:::

Im hoping to find someone to not only fuel My desire but to ensnare My senses and captivate My mind.


1/18/2009 7:50:36 PM
getting rid of My acct.   if youd like to stay in touch please email.
10/6/2008 6:02:17 PM
hmmmm....I wonder what others thoughts are on japanese rope bondage?Ive been to several midori workshops and while the end result is "pretty"...the same effect can be more easily achieved with leather and steel.

I guess what I wonder is ,....are the psychological effects of the rope bondage worth the hassle?
7/24/2008 9:46:43 PM
Ok.....first and foremost,this is a GENERAL rant,not directed at anyone in particular.That being said,why...why...WHY are there so many people on here whose profile reads (something like) "owned,please dont contact Me" or "not looking" or " am here to just see whos here" or (My fav.) "I created this acct so i can make friends in the lifestyle" ..... why? to "see whos here" you dont need to create an acct. ,if you wanna make friends try myspace,or better yet,why not actually GET INVOLVED in your local BDSM community?

*Ugh* 

and why the heck hasnt Collarme taken My suggestion of updating the search tool...theres a max weight...why not a min. weight? SOME of us are in no way interested in women that look like theyre pre-pubescent
1/9/2008 4:23:07 PM
question ....am I the only one who finds it starnge that there are people on here that have multiple accts under different headings?as in Ive ran across 4 different people who have accts as a sub,slave,switch,Dominant 
1/9/2008 2:44:48 PM
just out of curiosity ... on the search feature theres a blank for "max weight" why isnt there one for "min. weight" ?   some of us would like to filter out the *ahem* "women" that look like theyre 12 or on meth REAL women have curves dang it  
1/8/2008 8:25:45 AM
Gods I love this movie




Allow me to be frank at the commencement.
You will not like me.
The gentlemen will be envious and the ladies will be repelled.
You will not like me now and you will like me a good deal less as we go on.
Ladies, an announcement: I am up for it, all the time.
That is not a boast or an opinion, it is bone hard medical fact. I put it round you know.
And you will watch me putting it round and sigh for it.
Don't.
It is a deal of trouble for you and you are better off watching and drawing your conclusions from a distance than you would be if I got my tarse up your petticoats.
Gentlemen. Do not despair, I am up for that as well.
And the same warning applies.
Still your cheesy erections till I have had my say.
But later when you shag - and later you will shag,
I shall expect it of you and I will know if you have let me down - I wish you to shag with my homuncular image rattling in your gonads.
Feel how it was for me, how it is for me and ponder.
'Was that shudder the same shudder he sensed? Did he know something more profound? Or is there some wall of wretchedness that we all batter with our heads at that shining, livelong moment.
That is it.
That is my prologue, nothing in rhyme, no protestations of modesty, you were not expecting that I hope.
I am John Wilmot, Second Earl of Rochester and I do not want you to like me.
1/2/2008 8:48:15 PM
Back in Houston ....damn its good to be home
11/12/2007 10:50:33 PM
This Saturday 11/17/07 We're having a double Scorpio party,its the Chas & Possum EXTRAVAGANZA!!!

Now I know its the same weekend as the Fetish Ball,... but how many times do you get to engage in drunken debauchery with the two premiere Scorpios of Dallas?

f you can make it let Me  know ... and I'll send details about the "theme"

***laughing maniacally***

5/19/2007 7:30:00 PM
Id like to hear from any single parents in the Lifestyle,since I got custody of My son My availability for play has of course diminished,but not My desire to play. anyways,Id like to hear how others balance family and play
5/18/2007 5:55:06 PM
at the risk of sounding selfish .. I wish I had a plaything to use and enjoy,if only for a night *le pout*
11/13/2006 10:23:21 PM
another birthday and nobody to play with  *le pout*
11/2/2006 6:52:08 AM
YaY! no work today,of course now I have the dillema of being bored to the Nth degree....someone come entertain Me?...LOL
9/10/2006 4:11:28 PM

Just got a new electric paddle and no toy to use it on....blah

7/26/2006 10:23:23 PM
ya know?even after 8 months in Dallas I still dont have a source of diversion....I want a plaything...someone I can not only amuse Myself with but someone I can call at 12:15 am and say "hey ,wanna come over and watch kevin smith movies?" - le pout -
6/22/2006 10:19:33 PM
wanted to post the lyrics to a song...but it wasnt formatting right....soooooooo...Origin of Love - from "Hedwig and the angry inch"  I love the sentiment and symbolism of this song.
5/28/2006 4:32:19 PM
By the Gods I'm bored!!!...it's reasons like this that make Me loathe long weekends
4/19/2006 4:40:24 PM
oh what I wouldnt give for an ass to beat...I gotta hankerin for some spankerin....*le pout*
3/21/2006 10:48:17 AM
I long to find a new canvas....a blank pallete that might be covered in crimson welts,bruises ranging from cerulean to veridian .... tears streaking down cheeks....visual and auditory art mingling as sobs ,moans,whimpers and sighs echo into the night.... until finally My tapestry is complete....*le sigh*
2/15/2006 10:05:55 AM
For the love of all thats holy will someone PLEASE entertain Me?!?!...LOL...Im bored as all Hell
12/5/2005 2:33:02 PM
*le sigh*....its cold in Dallas,and not having anyone to play with...or even snuggle with makes all the colder.

I think thats the worst thing about moving to a new city...the "not knowing anyone" phase...Ive never been much into the club/bar scene...so that makes it that much harder....so if youre in the Dallas area...even if youre collared or taken or spoken for or what have you....if youd like to make a friend or would liek to help Me make friends...LOL...please please please email...
11/2/2005 1:01:52 AM
ya know...while I understand that not everyone in the BDSM Lifestyle is into S&m,one would think that sending mail to someone with Sadist in their screen name and including the phrase "...not really into pain..." wouldnt really compute......*Le sigh*
11/1/2005 8:01:35 PM

its occured to Me that one of the best feelings in the world is that fraction of a second befoe a kiss,,,when your mouth is maybe an inch away....eyes just starting to close...hands exploring each other....bodies pressed tight...yes,a very nice...and missed, feeling indeed

1/16/2005 10:26:35 AM
Finally got My PC back up an running....Ive been going through withdrawls....LOL.


ya know,I wish people who respond to My profile would actualy READ it.....Im not looking for a one night stand *le sigh*
12/5/2004 4:34:35 PM

*le sigh*what a ho-hum kinda day

10/9/2004 1:06:23 PM
ok,so Im a sap at times...


When the earth was still flat,
And the clouds made of fire,
And mountains stretched up to the sky,
Sometimes higher,
Folks roamed the earth
Like big rolling kegs.
They had two sets of arms.
They had two sets of legs.
They had two faces peering
Out of one giant head
So they could watch all around them
As they talked; while they read.
And they never knew nothing of love.
It was before the origin of love.



And there were three sexes then,
One that looked like two men
Glued up back to back,
Called the children of the sun.
And similar in shape and girth
Were the children of the earth.
They looked like two girls
Rolled up in one.
And the children of the moon
Were like a fork shoved on a spoon.
They were part sun, part earth
Part daughter, part son.


Now the gods grew quite scared
Of our strength and defiance
And Thor said,
"I'm gonna kill them all
With my hammer,
Like I killed the giants."
And Zeus said, "No,
You better let me
Use my lightening, like scissors,
Like I cut the legs off the whales
And dinosaurs into lizards."
Then he grabbed up some bolts
And he let out a laugh,
Said, "I'll split them right down the middle.
Gonna cut them right up in half."
And then storm clouds gathered above
Into great balls of fire

And then fire shot down
From the sky in bolts
Like shining blades
Of a knife.
And it ripped
Right through the flesh
Of the children of the sun
And the moon
And the earth.
And some Indian god
Sewed the wound up into a hole,
Pulled it round to our belly
To remind us of the price we pay.
And Osiris and the gods of the Nile
Gathered up a big storm
To blow a hurricane,
To scatter us away,
In a flood of wind and rain,
And a sea of tidal waves,
To wash us all away,
And if we don't behave
They'll cut us down again
And we'll be hopping round on one foot
And looking through one eye.

Last time I saw you
We had just split in two.
You were looking at me.
I was looking at you.
You had a way so familiar,
But I could not recognize,
Cause you had blood on your face;
I had blood in my eyes.
But I could swear by your expression
That the pain down in your soul
Was the same as the one down in mine.
That's the pain,
Cuts a straight line
Down through the heart;
We called it love.
So we wrapped our arms around each other,
Trying to shove ourselves back together.
We were making love,
Making love.
It was a cold dark evening,
Such a long time ago,
When by the mighty hand of Jove,
It was the sad story
How we became
Lonely two-legged creatures,
It's the story of
The origin of love.

9/28/2004 8:17:36 AM
On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? 
Will he offer me his mouth? 
Yes. 
Will he offer me his teeth? 
Yes.
Will he offer me his jaws? 
Yes. 
Will he offer me his hunger?
Yes. 
Again, will he offer me his hunger? 
Yes! 
And will he starve without me?
Yes.
 And does he love me? 
YES


On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? 
Yes.

anyone else noticing a theme?

9/28/2004 6:54:46 AM
Will you raise me up, will you help me down?
Will you get me right out of this Godforsaken town?
Will you make it all a little less cold? 



Will you hold me sacred? Will you hold me tight?
Can you colorize my life, I'm so sick of black and white?
Can you make it all a little less old?


Will you make me some magic, with your own two hands?
Can you build an emerald city with these grains of sand?
Can you give me something I can take home? 


Will you cater to every fantasy I got?
Will ya hose me down with holy water, if I get too hot?
Will you take me places I've never known?


Im not sure why Im posting this....but I was just listening to this song  an dwhen that part came on it just sounded like it belonged in the realm of D/s.
9/27/2004 11:38:32 PM
"sex without Pain,is like food without taste"   -Marquis De Sade-


Truer words were never spoken
9/22/2004 6:48:59 PM
at the risk of sounding a bit dense,WHY does a persons Religion matter when it comes to friendship?ok....I can see MAYBE the whole Jewish/Muslim thing not working.I guess I just dont see where its a real "issue"...Im Wiccan,I was raised Wiccan,I'll probably always BE Wiccan......in the immortal words of pepe le pew......... "le sigh"
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 Age: 31
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