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| Just browsing...I've seen a lot here, and frankly people do not know who they are. I have been studying this for a while. I see women and men claiming to be switches. I see women claiming to be dominant. I am soo annoyed with this. Is this lifestyle even real? Is this even possible? I met someone who claimed to be a Dom and wanted me to call him Master. But then he said vanilla would have to work. Yet he wanted to control me over the phone and online ONLY. Now I understand that, as you have children, so you cannot have this lifestyle in front of the kids. But I wonder, if I go with someone like this, would he be what he claims to be online? If a woman says she wants a Master, she means it. Not some guy who pretends just to get a peek show on cam.
Not one of you seems to know how this works. Some of you think it's about abusing someone and taking advantage of them. The others think it's about pretending to be something that you're not. Curiousity is not enough for you to say that you are a DOM. Just because you have kinky thoughts, does not mean you want to be a sub. It's about love and committment and cherishing someone and allowing them, yes it is a choice to surrender yourself to someone, and allow them to explore you to the point where you cannot breath without them. They should be your first thought in the morning and the last thought before you close your eyes. I want that. The man that would place his collar on me and it be just as significant as a wedding ring on my finger. Not someone who says, "you're worthless and meaningless and literally a slave, meaning less than an animal." I would do all I could to make him proud to have me as a pet.
What woman wants to be with a man who treats them like an animal? What woman wants to be with a man who won't respect her sexually and when she says "No more." he doesn't stop? Every woman wants a man they can trust. If you want to be a Master, you have to be trustworthy, or it won't work. Stopping when it is uncomfortable helps the relationship. Not continuing and allowing pain. Is it really necessary for her to hurt and be uncomfortable during sex in order for you to feel good? If so, then you have the wrong idea. Pain is good, spankings, flogging, clamps, plugs, and the other stuff is fine, but things that can damage the womans sexuality is stupid. Who wants to do that?
It seems to me that a lot of men come here really are not Doms at all. It's like you're desperate or something to get a date and you use this site to find another woman. Trust me guys, if you are not really a Dom, by the first 5 minutes of talking to you, I can tell it. So please try harder. Speaking with a lot of you shows that you couldn't make a woman do anything. How are you supposed to be a Dom when you can't control a conversation? If a man is a Dom, he should possess certain qualities that some of you just don't have. I understand physical attraction, and meeting someone, but words mean a lot and if you cannot communicate properly, then why would anyone assume you worthy of being called Master? I want someone to call Master. Stop wasting my time with your requests for cyber sex. I don't need that, I want honesty.
On another note, I am NOT looking for a father. I do prefer older men, but some of you take it too far with the whole "daddy" thing. Trust me, I would never do the things with my dad, that I want to do with you. Also, too much of the "little girl stuff" is over the top as well. Its starting to make me think some of you prefer children, and I am not into pedophiles, so knock it off.
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