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Hetero Male Dominant, 57,  Ashburn, Virginia
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Updated 4-27-2022

I live daily by the creed A Master must be the Master of Himself before He can Master another.
I have 35 years of real life experience in this way of life.

I am looking for someone very special with the following traits a true servants heart, the gift of mercy, few limits or the desire to explore and push limits, good domestic and healthy culinary skills are a plus. The heart is the most important trait.

It is an expectation that you will relocate to live with us permanently. I seek a female that chooses to be a lesser vessel to be loved, cared for and led by a man. I believe that men should function as the Head of Household (HOH) and that women are to be taken in hand and led as such.

My house would be ideal for someone with a true slaves heart that desires to totally focus on service and living the life of a slave that many dream of, but few have the privilege to make a reality.

Please note I am for real and not a fake. If you are for real, and this interests you, please contact me to start a dialog. I look forward to hearing from you. I wish the best in your search.












 Dominant Male



 5' 8"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples


A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Movies (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)

 Climbing (Expert)


 Hiking (Expert)

 Behind Worship (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Local BDSM Community (Expert)

 Rear End Play (Expert)

 Erotic Hypnosis (Expert)

 Medical fetish play (Expert)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial (Expert)

 Sensation Play (Expert)

 Maid / Butler Service (Expert)

 Public Play (Expert)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Sensory Play (Expert)

 Spanking you (Expert)

 Theatrical Scenes (Expert)

 Vacuum Stimulation

 Watersports (Expert)

 Cooking (Expert)

 Conservative Politics (Expert)


 1950s Lifestyle (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Polyamory (Expert)


 Auto Racing (Expert)


 Beachcombing (Expert)


 Musical Theater


 Horseback Riding

 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)


 You wearing my collar




 Genital Punishment

 Being Massaged

 Fire Play


 Hoods (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Placing you on a leash

 Masks (Wearing)


 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Rituals (Expert)

 You servicing me orally (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Expert)

 Shaving my pubic hair

 Shibari (Expert)

 Speech Restrictions (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)

 Body Art (Beginner)

 Nutrition (Expert)



 Victorian Lifestyle


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 New Age Music

 Opera Music

 Seventies Music

 Christianity (Expert)

 Baseball (Expert)



 Horse Racing



 Going to the Opera



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Erotic touch

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Selecting the clothes you wear (Expert)

 Wax Play

 Card Games

 Tattoos (Beginner)


 Old Guard



 Working Out

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass


 Country Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music




 Ice Hockey





 Board Games

 TV Sports

 Libertarian Politics


 Latter-day Saints


 Curious About:

 G-spot Stimulation (Beginner)

 Modern Primitivism



 Time Management



 Housework Service

 Hard Limits:


 Suspension Bondage

 Liberal Politics


 Female Led Relationships

 Female Sovereignty

 Goddess Sanctuary



 Computer Expert

 Gourmet Cook

 Leatherworking Expert

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Journal Entries:
2/7/2010 4:28:50 PM
I need to set some minimum boundaries for one that I would be interested in talking with as a potential slave/submissive to my home. This comes from email that I have gotten in the last few weeks.

1. Please be a resident and living in the US or Canada.
2. I will not consider anyone that has children living with them or is responsible for the care of any children.
3. Should be able to drive and make clear decisions.
4. Can follow instructions and wants to be led by a powerful, strong true Master and Gentleman.

Just trying to be sincere and honest. I appreciate you viewing my profile.

11/11/2009 7:53:23 AM
I attended a "Master's Training Weekend" this past weekend. It was life changing for me. To have the privilege to learn from intelligent, passionate Dominant Masters for four intense days. Met some wonderful Masters hungry for knowledge and understanding about being Master of themselves first, then the Master of their house and slaves. I will be a much better Master to my slave and a more knowledgeable participant in our community because of it. Feel free to message me privately to discuss any details about my training or the slave training weekends that they offer as well. My slave will be attending their female slave training and any future slaves to my house will be required to attend as well. I am a stronger and more powerful Dominant Gentleman as a result of my training. SDG

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