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For Dominant and Switch men: I am looking for a partner and one not afraid to deal fire with fire. Intelligence, class, mature and well- educated (self-taught and life experience just as valid). Let me know ....
For Submissive Men:
I am looking for an alpha-type male who WANTS to submit to me after a long hard day of maintaining his place in the world. A dominant Male who KNOWS what he wants and how to get it and NEEDS the release of submission.
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I am highly intelligent, well-educated, sexy, pretty, cultured, with taste and style. In essence, a class act so I expect my submissive to be of a tier able to be worthy of ME! My expectations:
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YOU:
Be masculine with a dominant mindset yet a need to be submissive, understand your purpose and place and have a job/car/life. Not interested in married or those with partners except in rare cases where it is carefully negotiated beforehand. I expect you to be able to hold a conversation on a variety of topics. To be able to express yourself, both written and verbally, with fluency and style and to handle discussions ranging from the BDSM to politics, science, world news to the geeky sci-fi or the latest trailer for a new movie. In other words, be a well?rounded person. I expect you to be educated and in a stable position in your life. In any case, I need to know your status, experience and expectations ahead of time and will be part of the process I use to determine if you are worthy of continuing to the next level in developing a bond/dynamic with me. Be available for weekends and the occasional event/requirement during the week though these will primarily be of the evening variety. Obviously family obligations come first and these can be discussed and negotiated as we proceed by both of us.
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ME:
I am looking for an LTR with a submissive capable of not only matching me but of keeping pace with me. Be aware I expect not only to be treated as a lady but as a QUEEN! I do not want a male to fall at my feet because of fear (well a touch of fear is not bad if there is punishment to be meted out?wicked laugh!) but because he adores what I do for him and with him. ?I am looking for a submissive male who will, by his very presence, enhance ME with his willing service! I am not talking about physical appearance but by how he holds himself with confidence, pride and class. He submits and caters to me because he knows he is good enough to do so and takes pride in that fact! ?
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I am NOT a heavy sadist but a sensation Domme though I enjoy the sadistic bondage/flogging/whipping play as well as CBT on my sub. I am interested in finding a submissive who is willing to learn along with me new techniques and dynamics, but bottom or demo bottom to the occasional Domme who expresses interest and can be used with my consent and at my discretion. I am also poly and have several other on-going dynamics of various types and I expect my submissive to participate in the dynamics as I deem fit. I expect to be escorted to events, functions and dinners/movies/plays. I also expect service in terms of running errands, cleaning, fixing and maintaining the occasional job around the house.
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I am interested in learning about your mind, fears, goals and passions?.I am, in essence, a mental sadist and it is THAT finesse of emotional and mental control that most turns me on! All else is but icing on the cake.
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If you are interested in serving a classy lady who know EXACTLY what she wants, when she wants it and how then be aware I EXPECT a gentleman who is strong enough to be able to admit he NEEDS what I can offer him in terms of release and guidance. Ultimately, the goal is the satisfaction of knowing he is with someone who will control, protect and lead him on the greatest journey of his life because THAT is my role as your Domme. In return I get what I WANT?You serving me as your Lady Domme.
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Are you up for the challenge and adventure? I will be waiting?.
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Question for submissive men: why start a conversation if you have no intention of following through? Do be reasonable and don't waste my time if you are interested only in one night stands or just sexual exploits. still holds true now....honestly! |
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I am having this conversation repeatedly so let me put this down as a journal entry to further ones understanding of me and limit my explanations of my interpretation of D/s ahead of time. I have found that many of you have gotten little or NO experience in what in my opinion I term true D/s and have possibly experienced only Pro Domme play because that is what Pros provide. Do not mistake me as pros work hard and put much pride and expertise in themselves, their customers and their techniques and they can be truly amazing. However, in my opinion TRUE D/s is the formation of a MUTUAL bond that is based on a deepening relationship of trust, honor, integrity and open and honest communication. A true D/s takes TIME! So you can either have the frothy creamy frosting alone which gets nauseating and sickening over time because it's too much sweet and fluff with NO substance to it and leaves one wondering is this ALL there is OR you can go for the full 8-course meal which takes TIME to prepare, serve, dine on and appreciate. It leaves one satiated yet with the longing for more and the wish to return again and again to savor new and exciting exotic delights and adventures YET still with the comfort, affection and closeness of familiarity and possibly love. So the bond deepens as the cycle continues. The choice is ultimately individual and every bond and partnership is unique but I have found that the KEY ingredients to ANY successful D/s relationship is TIME, commitment, work, integrity and open and honest communication. I hope that answers many of your questions ahead of time. |
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Age: 32 |
Southampton,
Canada |
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