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I have been in the lifestyle off and on for about 10 years (yes, since I was 18).The "off" parts have been because at my age, there are very few dominant men of any substance so I have had to settle. I'm very masochistic with a *very* high pain tolerance. I am bisexual, but I am exclusive. That means I'm either with a male OR a female. I'm educated (Master's degree, and the irony is not lost on me that I am, educationally, a Master) and have a strong personality, but I am truly submissive at heart. I know my place is at the feet of the right man, though I may have a little feisty mischievousness mixed in for good measure.
I'm 5'7, size 10/12 and consider myself very pretty. SWF and prefer WM though I have played with/dated across the spectrum. I know there are not a lot of experienced men in my age range, but I am not looking for anyone more than 10 yrs my senior, I'm sorry.
I'm new to CM but not BDSM. Please don't think I'll submit via webcam before I meet you. I'm submissive, not stupid.
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Even if our kinks are not compatible, I am looking to make more friends in the lifestyle. Especially female friends. I long for a close female friend who I can express my true self to, without having to filter what I say.
I have great female friends outside of BDSM, and they know me as the freak of the group because I admit to such tame things as living for and always wanting sex! I want a female friend I can share experiences with. Who doesn't raise an eyebrow when I gush about how he shoved his whole cock down my throat or how he finally brought out the darker candle wax to really excite me. Who I can talk about the marks on my ass without feeling judged.
I haven't had a close female friend who also enjoys BDSM in a year or so, and I really miss that. Whenever I try to meet new girls, they tend to be part of a couple and want me to join. I'm not looking for that. Just a friend, pure and simple. Well, maybe not "pure." ;)
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Someone pointed out to me how interesting my two "lives for" are. Volunteerism and hair pulling. Well, can I simply say that I volunteer for you to pull my hair? ;)
I know, I know, with a wit like mine, how can you even think of silencing me with a gag......
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I'm new to CM, but not to the BDSM community. I first joined ALT 10 years ago, but I feel the same problems I encountered then I am encountering now.
Luckily, back when I first started, I met a great couple off ALT that saved me a lot of networking trouble. But now, I'm starting all over again! First off.. submissive does not equal stupid. I am appalled that people still want to Dom me in an initial email. If this was RL, calling me "little one" or whatever pet name you would want to use would seriously turn me on. But many people don't realize/admit D/s relationships are built on many of the same fundamentals that vanilla relationships are. Trust, personality, similar interests.
If I have to field another email that starts with "the first time we meet, you come to my door and before you can see me I blindfold you and slam you against the door"...etc, I may go vanilla. ;). Submissive women want the same thing all women want. Well, kinda. But what I mean is that I want to meet and form a relationship with you before I submit to you. BDSM is not a one night stand to me. It is sexual, but not just about sex.
... I'm rambling!
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| Age: 22 |
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