I am relatively new to deliberate kink even though I have 21 years of vanilla dominant military and civilian experience. I am very interested in cultivating new friendships and experiences. I am VERY eager to learn.

I am Polyamorous, Dominant, and a Giver. I am a Daddy, a Sadist, a Collector, a Dragon Tamer, and a Nascent Doll Maker. I am Son Goku properly translated as The Monkey King.

I have grown exponentially in my concept of the lifestyle. In my personal revolution, I have acquired a PASSION for practical lifestyle in a context of a D/s household. While this vision is NOT for everyone, I am excited by the prospect of bringing together people of like mind in this BOLD forward vision. I am also excited by the prospect of opening up a dialogue and maintaining long term relationships with those who don't understand or agree with my vision. Look for more on this topic in my journal posts here.

I have the distinct pleasure of being part of the select committee mentoring and protecting J8dedeyez. I am excited that J8dedeyez and I have entered into negotiations that we hope will end in her being the first submissive in the House of Air and Fire. I am looking forward to a Collar of Consideration ceremony in the near future.

I AM ALSO A PASSIONATE PHOTOGRAPHER!!!!!!! HAVE CANON T1i WILL TRAVEL. I WILL COME TO YOUR LOCATION. I WILL TAKE ANY SHOT. I AM TALKING COSTUME SHOTS, BDSM SHOTS, SCENE SHOTS, CHARACTER SHOTS, NO HOLDS BARRED SHOTS, EVEN VANILLA SHOTS. FEEL FREE TO CONTACT AND FRIEND ME. Links to my online Photo profiles on Flick'r are included for your perusal. Additions are made daily. YES, PHOTOGRAPHY IS MY FAVORITE FETISH!!! LET'S MAKE SOME ART!!!!!!!

UPDATE 3-9-10

j8dedeyes has accepted the Collar of Consideration. She is only days away from finishing preparation for my Training Collar. We are both VERY excited. As a Leather Household we are VERY informally beginning the friending process that will eventually bring her first sister on board.

It is our vision for the House of Air and Fire to include men and women, submissives and slaves who would like to stay or be trained for other Houses, and Dominants who plan on training then moving on to their own Houses. We encourage all to come. We especially look forward to those interested in either modeling or photography as the House of Air and Fire will be very involved there.

Please look for additional writing on our House philosophy and accumulated training standards.

THE STUDIO IS OPEN!!!!!!!

After months of planning and preparation, the Cupid’s Lens Studio is open for business. Three blocks off the beach on Baltic Avenue we have opened our little labor of love on the ground floor of our little condominium. Hours are as follows:

Monday through Friday: 10 am – 8 pm
Saturday and Sunday: By Appointment

Please contact me through personal message and I will forward you my number to make an appointment. I am still available for any event or by appointment to travel to your location for special photo sessions.

UPDATE 4-12-10

I am proud to announce my membership in Professional Photographers of America (PPA). PPA is the largest professional organization for the photographic profession in North America. It is also the leading certifying agency for imaging professionals. I look forward to more announcements very soon on certification.

**Our Code of Honor:**
We seek dynamic, safe, sane and consensual energy exchanges.

We are Honest.

We keep our word.

We are Responsible.

We help those who are willing to help themself.

We teach those who really want to learn and we respect our teachers.

We freely express sincere respect, appreciation and affection because that builds energy.

We try to avoid debates with those who have closed minds for that is a waste of energy.

We respect relationships.

We do not gossip, back stab or reveal the personal information of others.

We realize some may fall short of these at times.

We are against bigotry, domestic abuse, child abuse, rape and government interference in our private lives.

We are for individual freedom, personal responsibility, and public service.

We do not bring into our inner circle those who do not stive to live by the above.

(feel free to borrow this code and make it your own)

BORROWED FROM THEOLDGUARDIAN

When love beckons to you, follow him, Though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you believe in him, Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.

For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning. Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun, So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.

Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself. He threshes you to make you naked. He sifts you to free you from your husks. He grinds you to whiteness. He kneads you until you are pliant; And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast.

All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.

But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure, Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor, Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears. Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself. Love possesses not nor would it be possessed; For love is sufficient unto love.

When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of God." And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.

Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires: To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by your own understanding of love; And to bleed willingly and joyfully. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving; To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy; To return home at eventide with gratitude; And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.

Kahlil Gibran on Love