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In some ways, I fall into that category of “Gentle Dom.” Sometimes I can be stern, rough, or forceful; but my underlying nature is kind, caring, respectful, and honest: a gentleman. I speak quietly and move deliberately. To me, being a Dom is about having a sense of presence and an innate self-confidence. I am not out to prove anything.
I don’t list kinks because kink is secondary to me. The various kinds of kink are just tools to be used in exploring the fascinating realm of dominance and submission. I’ll do practically anything kinky, but I am not “into” any specific thing. I do what works for the dynamic: what helps the two of us explore and push boundaries.
That is what I seek. The deep connection that is found in power exchange (at whatever level). I am not talking about love or passion, but rather about pure intimacy. There is something so deeply touching and thrilling about a person handing over control of some parts of herself to me. Thrilling for both of us (if it is not, then something is wrong). It is a constantly-rejuvenating sort of excitement: one that just gets better with time. As a friend recently expressed to me: just about the time when vanilla relationships get boring, D/s relationships are just starting to blossom into their full wonder.
What I am looking for here are opportunities to delve deeper into these realms. I do not consider myself poly, but I have had more than one partner. I would be delighted to find a sub who completes me; but also quite happy to find another sub to be friends with and share good times.
If you are my sub, I expect you to be my friend, companion, fellow explorer. We are entirely equals; we just have different roles within that relationship. It is that partnership that allows us to delve deep; to go to places where we both can marvel at our new discoveries together.
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