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Greetings...............

If you are looking for the "usual" Dom, please pass this One up...

...if you are still here, then I admire your desire for the fine balance of respect and control that I live and wish to share.


The girl I seek

Ah, such a large amount of attributes, criteria, and expectations can be said here...but why? I firmly believe that those with a submissive personality/mindset are indeed naturally submissive, and as a Dom I will certainly be able to use that need for my pleasure. Truly, I believe in this area - detailing what I seek - should be attributes which define the submissive in day-to-day being, as opposed to the person she portrays in play or sessions. Indeed, the submissive truly is who she is as a whole, and not merely a sum of parts that can be dissected and independently used.

An overview of my desires:

- intelligence, coupled with an always-open mind. I find a good mind to be quite pleasurable indeed; as well I desire to be able to have discourse with my girl on subjects other than the lifestyle. A closed mind limits one's self - preventing the growth of the person as a whole - and will not be accepted with me.
- strength, both mental and emotional. I firmly believe in respect for my girl, but I am not able to give that if she is herself does not possess it...if I wish a doormat I will drive to Home Depot and purchase one.
- a submissive who knows her submissive heart, and is comfortable with her being, while always knowing her place.
- a girl who is not fearful of - and will not shy away from - the respect I would freely give her.
- an open spirit with a fine sense of humor.

Me

Again, a topic on which much can be written, truly.

- a Dom. I know who and what I am, and as such, I feel no need nor desire to scream about, constantly remind others of, or always dress to represent that fact. I possess a cool calmness, derived from the knowledge and acceptance of my true being.
- intelligent, but not a braggart.
- open-minded.
- balanced...with the ability to assume total control if need be.
- employed, but with the realization that life on this Earth is both far too valuable - and short - to think work is the main reason of our being.
- sexual, with the realization that sex is not - and should not be - the main part of any relationship.
- neither Brad Pitt nor the Elephant man.

I will state this again: this is a simple overview of myself and my desires. As I get acclimated to my new surroundings - as well as begin communicating with submissives who find my version of the lifestyle to be intriguing - I will reveal more about my thoughts and beliefs.

I will also state this to clear up any potential confusion (although feel this does not need to be said): age, race and other extraneous factors do not matter to me. The true matter of the submissive is the most important aspect of us all: the soul and heart she has.

I do welcome messages from girls who wish to converse.

Namaste'
kittenforplay
 
 Age: 41
 Melbourne, Australia