In our relationship my wife and I have decided when we first started in this lifestyle that we had one and only one limit. That limit is that we do not fuck those that we play with. That being said . I would really love to have another guy , female or even a couple help with giving my wife a good long massage to really get her in the mood. The other/s would be allowed to go down on her and ravish her pussy while I watch and directed . Another part of the scenario is that I fuck her afterwards . Said helper/s would then clean her up afterwards as soon as her pussy was calmed down enough for it ( or maybe not) . There is more to it but you get the idea.