am sapiosexual. For me intellectual discourse is foreplay. I am aroused by intellect, wisdom, and knowledge. I am attracted to intelligent, witty, driven women who know what they want and are not afraid to ask for it, whatever their D/s preferences are.
I am well educated, worldly, sophisticated, and intelligent - but with a bad boy streak. I have traveled much of the world and I am well educated. I own and operate several businesses in Boston. I will find it challenging to relate to you if you cannot uphold your end of a conversation.
I am a very high energy, positive attitude guy. That means I am a perpetual optimist. If that annoys you, I am not the man for you. That does not mean that I can’t be sarcastic and snarky at times (I definitely am!). It just means that my outlook on life is that opportunity lurks on every corner, and I intend to make the most of every opportunity.
I am a true gentleman when it comes to relationships. I have the utmost respect for people. I obey the golden rule – do unto others as you would have them do unto you. While that is a religious quote, my citing it in no way should be interpreted as my being particularly religious. In the D/s context, the golden rule means I will make sure to please you just as you will please me. I take great pleasure in satisfying my partner, whatever their BDSM or vanilla needs are.
I love to laugh and I am a foodie. I like to indulge in exquisite dinners with delicious wine and the right companion! Chemistry is important to me, so expect me to want to enjoy your company. For me, there is no greater aphrodisiac than an exquisite meal, luscious wine, and thought provoking conversation. We will get along famously if that sounds like fun to you.
A fun date for me includes dinner, drinks, and conversation. Then some D/s fun someplace in downtown Boston. That could be in my office, in a public or semi-public place, or a hotel. The possibilities are endless – use your imagination!
About my life in D/s
I am a professional and value discretion. I do not need my private life broadcast to my clients and family members. I also have an extensive military background and do not need to the extra scrutiny, so I will be cautious.
The facial hair you see in my photos is for when I travel outside of the US to avoid looking too much like a GI.
I am an experienced Dominant male looking for a submissive woman for play and possibly something longer term. I have been known to enjoy the company of a switch, but that certainly is the exception rather than the rule. However, if the chemistry is right, anything is possible.
I am attracted to all types and I am open to women from any ethnic or racial background, as well as all body types and experience levels. I am looking for boundary pushers to experiment and explore with. I prefer as few inhibitions as possible. I particularly enjoy predicament bondage, impact and sensation play, public or semi-public play, and kinky fun in general. But I have a totally open mind, as long as I am in a Dominant role.
