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Professional, leader, "nice guy," father, nerd! Getting over a bad relationship, so I'm still re-learning who I am. I will probably be more interested in talking, meeting you, first, and the fun stuff after we know each other. Not to say I don't have wondering hands though if you let me get away with it. Not into pain, but very into dominance, and force. Learning the ropes of rope play. Horrible puns are my primary source of causing pain (joke)... Could be interested in poly with the right group, but it would have to grow naturally. My idea of working poly is probably 2 gals 2 guys. I do cuddle, I do kiss, but I tend to get absorbed by work or hobbies. I do write, mostly porn (ok, erotic fiction, but lets face it, writing intended to get folks off is the same thing as pics/videos intended to get folks off, it is still porn). I kinda need to keep my job separate from here, so discretion is appreciated. Want to know about math/computers/statistics, I'm your guy (I did say I was a nerd, right?). Not a real programmer, but I can troubleshoot/install hardware/configure OS's/install linux/etc. BTW, if your computer dies, try ubuntu, it is pretty user friendly, and will run on computers windoze won't work on. (Left the below because it is me, but I figured a better "about me" was needed, so made something new above) Friendly, nice, quiet, but with a torrent inside. Discipline can be about sharing, I tell you to answer my questions about you, and you tell me... Discipline is much better achieved with fear of the unknown than fear of pain. I will find out what you fear, and what you fear to enjoy. You will tell me, eventually, what you have always wanted to do but been afraid to try. Then I will make you do it. Friend, lover, or just online play, talk to me.

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11/20/2013 11:43:45 PM

"Huh, you don't live near me"

OK, so collarme has an odd design flaw.  When you move, and change your profile to list your new location, CM will still track you by your old location.  If you have run into this problem (or see someone with the problem) here is how to fix it.

While the city is in "Edit Profile," your zip code is in "My Account."  If you want to show up at the correct location for "nearby matches," and such, you will have to go into the "My Account," tab and change your zip code.  Otherwise, even though you list your location as New York, NY, you will only show up on the searches of folks in Billings Montana.

It would be nice if the city, state, and zip code info on this site were all in one place, but hey, it's free right?


8/8/2013 5:30:53 PM

It is always tricky trying to figure out what you want in life.  To some extent I'm looking for a bratty sub.  I will totally respect a safeword, but outside of that if a gal tries to get away with something, and I have to force her physically, or just with a glare, to be good, it is fun for me.  Then again, a shy gal who doesn't know what she wants but knows she wants more can be a lot of fun too.  I donno.


8/7/2013 4:45:19 PM

I can't understand doms who talk about not having safewords.  Sure, there might be an issue that is so difficult for a sub that a dom may need to, after months of getting to know the sub, ask the sub to go without a safeword for one session.  A pair may not need the safeword after a few years, when they know eachother so well that the dom can read the sub like an open book. 

But not starting out!

A safeword is like the net that circus acrobats use.  Sure, some of the best can work without a net, once they really know the other members of the troupe, but even then they only skip the net for the audience.  When they practice they still have the net.

A dom who doesn't use a safeword when they start is like an acrobat who doesn't use a net when learning a new routine with a new troupe.  They can get hurt and hurt others, and that isn't just not cool, it is stupid.

 


6/24/2012 3:34:24 PM

"Nanny Needed"

OK, clearly this is a dating service, not a employment search, but I can't help wondering if there is a cute female sub on here who would like to be a live-in nanny and is willing (and would enjoy) sexual harassment on the job.  Wouldn't happen in front of the kids obviously.  I'm serious and this would be a paying job...

 


2/12/2012 5:31:44 PM

Service:

"Shower time," I call, and you hurry to the bathroom.  You are nude before I finish undressing, and so you help me get out of my socks.  Seeing you down there arouses me visibly, and you rub it on your cheek playfully.  "Get in there," I say, "Make sure the water is warm for me."

You get in the shower and sure enough, the first blast is cold.  "Eek," you say, before the water warms up.  I join you and slide next to you, getting my body into the water.  You reach for the soap and washcloth, and start to do your job.  My arms and chest are first, you scrub carefully, including my armpits and neck.  Then I turn around and you clean my back and buttocks.  You get the back of my legs, kneeling in the water and squinting against the spray.  

I turn again, and you work your way up my legs.  After you thoroughly soap and rinse my manhood, you decide to be naughty.  Your mouth encircles my cock, and you suck deeply.  You feel me twitch in your mouth, and enjoy being the reason I am hard.  "What are you doing?"  I ask.

You take your mouth off me, knowing you need to answer, "Cleaning."  You go right back to it.

"I didn't ask for that," I groan.  You know I'm enjoying it, but you know you are pushing the boundaries, you want a punishment again.  "Maybe I should spray all over your face?"

You quickly answer, "If master wishes."

"You'd enjoy it too much."  I push your head off me, and you actually mew in protest.  You don't do anything else though, you are too well trained for that.    "Maybe a spanking?"  I turn you slightly, and you get the hint, facing away from me, bent over.  "Should I use my hand?"  I swat you, not hard, but enough to sting, and to turn your right cheek red.  "Or should I use my hips?"  I push against you, my cock sliding into the crack between your cheeks but not finding it's hole-yet.

You groan and try to move your hips, to get your womanhood positioned for me.  But I put my hands on your back.  "Not yet, lets finish the shower and dry off, then we will use the bed."  You groan in frustration, but know better to protest.  You stand to get out of the shower.  "Where are you going?"  I ask.

"Getting the towels master," you answer.

"Not yet, you see, you were naughty, and now you have to wait."  I take my time washing your body, paying special attention to rubbing first my hands, then the rough cloth, then my hands again, over every inch of your skin.  By the time I say "OK, we're done," you are panting.

You grab the towels quickly, then stop.  I look from you to the tap and back.  You drop the towels, turn off the water, and then pick them up, getting goosed as you present your luscious ass to me.  You dry me off, then dry yourself, playing with your body in front of me because you know I enjoy it. 

I watch the show, but once you are clearly dry, I just walk to the bedroom.  I lie on my back.  "I'm feeling lazy slave, you do the work."

Climbing on top of me, you finally get your reward.

 


2/11/2012 6:13:01 AM

Looking for friends, to learn the scene, and maybe for someone who can be more than a friend (short term or long term).

Also, trying to turn over a new leaf, so if I get too serious or negative feel free to remind me.  I will be a positive, friendly, and fun person or die trying!  (Well, I'll die even if I succeed, oops, is that negative-grin).

Life is too short to be angry or hold a grudge.


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Cryptorchid
 
 Age: 33
 Springfield, Missouri