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SoVerySunny

I am on here looking to meet someone local, who is looking for more than just someone to play with, I want a friend and maybe even more as well. ?We all know things don't happen overnight but it really helps if both people are looking for the same thing from the get go. ? I am poly and currently in a a relationship. My relationship allows me to see anyone (within reason) whom I like.? I am not new to this, for someone my age I have a good amount of experience. ?There is a lot of stuff out there I have tried and there is still a lot more out there I have not done,I want to find the right person to do those things with. ?I am not looking for someone to 'teach me how to be submissive'. ?However if you have any idea what that is supposed to mean feel free to clue me in because I certainly do not know. ? As far as my specific interests, I would be happy to talk with you about them. ?I don't think it is as cut and dry as two lists of things I am into and things that are limits so I would prefer to make a conversation out of it, lets talk. ?Besides, while I feel that sharing the same interests on a kinky level is important (I wouldn't be here if I didn't) I think it is equally important that we click on a personal level.?? ? I am sometimes a really busy person, and I know everyone else out there is as well. ?However, I would really like to be able to meet someone who can take the time to build a relationship with me. ?No one has ever described me as overly needy or clingy but I want more than just sex and play. ?Sometimes it is nice to just have someone to cuddle with. ? As far as age is concerned it is extremely case by case for me. ?From experience I have found that large generation gaps can cause issues in long term relationships, at the same time I don't always click that well with people my own age. ?So, who knows. ? I do not keep a photo of myself up on here, I just don't feel this site is private enough. ?I do not keep my interests behind closed doors, I am active in my local BDSM community, but I also do not broadcast them out to the world. ?I assure you I am a real person and have no problem sending you a (g-rated) photo of myself but I don't want my face plastered all over this site, so I will just stick with this pretty stock image for now. You can find me on another popular site that offers a bit more privacy(different username, I can give it to you if we end up talking) and I have photos up there. ? Currently I am trying to become more active in the BDSM scene in south Florida again but my work schedule does not seem to agree. I am not looking for a long drawn out series of emails and chats, I am really looking to meet someone in person, so please be aware of that. ?Personally I feel you can tell a lot more about a person spending an hour with them in person than weeks and weeks of emails and messaging. ?I do like to chat a little bit first so I have some idea of who I am meeting though. ? Send me a message, we can talk, see if there is anything between us.
velvet23
 
 Age: 24
 San Bernardino, California