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SoCaDominant

THIS PROFILE IS NOT FOR THOSE WHO ARE CURIOUS ABOUT THIS LIFESTYLE. As well, if you've discovered this lifestyle only late in life, than most likely, this profile is also not for you. I am Dominant. I am seeking a submissive who holds a philosophical belief in a MALE head of household or other male-centric cultural models. This is not about simply using kinky toys to play together in the bedroom (although that will happen). And yes, bondage and restraint will be a regular part of the relationship as will discipline and punishment (e.g., corporal, spankings, corner time, isolation, deprivation, denial, etc.) for behavioral compliance. However, and more importantly, this will be about a manner of living. Respect, trust, and structure will be cornerstones of the relationship. I hold clear expectations about what I want (e.g., when you are to be available to me, when you are to call when you are away, things to wear, etc.). If you do not feel as though you can find fulfillment through emotional submission in addition to physical submission, please save both of us time. If you are one who enjoys having someone take the lead, feels they 'are better in life' and are more fulfilled when aligned with a confident, in charge, alpha male who provides guidance, then it's worth your time to take a few minutes and reply to this posting now. Also, I'm not a leather, tattooed Dominant. If that's your "look", I'm not the one for you. Nor am I someone who is lacking in inner confidence or who uses D/s to address underlying insecurities pertaining to women. I know who I am. This lifestyle is the natural extension of my existence. I will share pics when we get to that point.
7/8/2011 9:08:18 PM

Update: 7/8/11:  Although I appreciate the interest, I can only respond to those who are local and/or regional.  Long distance simply isn't realistic with regards to actualizing the life I will know.  Thank you.

Poohabear
 
 Age: 26
 Alamosa, Colorado