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Pan Male Switch, 50,  Odessa-Midland, Texas
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Very easy going, DDF, Looking for a casual rope bondage play partner - top, switch or bottom. I tend 65% towards bottoming. My only request is that partners be very into ropes and the art tying for restrained fun. You do not have to be a shibari-master!!!

I travel in northern TX, south OK, and East NM. Not into masochism, but like exploring just about everything that doesn't leave a permanent mark. T&D and Ticklers are welcome.

Profile up at bondageDOTcom for more details. Would love to send you a pic, if you just drop me a line... Ben












 Male Switch



 5' 6"

 160 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

 Lives For:

 Blindfolds (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Gags (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial (Expert)

 Queening (Expert)

 Strap-Ons (Beginner)

 Tickling (Expert)


 Breast Play (Expert)

 Hair Pulling

 Shibari  (Beginner)

 Vibrators (Expert)



 Body Worship

 Electrical Play

 Sensory Deprivation (Beginner)

 Theatrical Scenes (Beginner)

 Uniforms (Beginner)





 Rock Music



 Plastic Wrap

 Curious About:







 Hard Limits:

 Canes and Crops

 Fire Play


 Knife Play


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Journal Entries:
6/25/2010 11:07:10 AM
I hopped on the old scales this morning and was happy to see 154.7 lbs!   I haven't been that light since 1990!! Yaaa!

6/12/2010 5:08:40 PM another question that keeps me up at night:  THe laws of thermal dynamics say that heat always rises, so why isn't hell cold?

...just asking.

6/12/2010 5:01:13 PM
Your displayed profile at Collarme is your introduction to the world here. Why do people fill their displayed profile with blathering about "DON'T BOTHER ME IF..." and "DON'T BOTHER ME THAT.." and insinuate somehow that everyone on the site is somehow a fraud/fake if they don't meet some weird expectation of theirs?  

Why do these people type in all caps? Do they not know it's rude, and they look like idiots? It seems that I just open Collarme, and I've usually got some new nutjob screaming at me, whom I do not know, and certainly never want to after their displays of childishness. 

Why don't these people go to a bar some evening, and scream and rant like expectant children at Christmas for every stranger who comes in the door?  I wonder how many great contacts they would make?

Meeting people is work. If these people don't want to invest in weeding out their mismatches with their God-given delete button, they should get a mail-order bride/husband from a foreign country and be done with searching.

Patience my friends. Patience.

6/11/2010 8:49:30 PM
It seems that some people that I talk to/contact are simply amazed that I would travel the distances that I sometimes travel to simply meet.  I find somewhat funny.

If I can meet an interesting person, it enriches me.  Each person is unique.  Each meeting is a gift of their time.  Why not burn a little gas for such a meeting?

Besides, I live in Texas, and it's not unheard of to have a driveway 8-miles long at a ranch.  :)  Distances are a relative concept. 

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