I am currently relearning how to be a submissive. I have spent the majority of the last decade being in relationships (2) where I have been told that I am the submissive, but it turns out all they wanted as someone who did all the work of a submissive, but not to put in the effort to take care of one.

I by no means am unwilling to carry my weight, but I need a partner(s) that want to maintain the dynamic balance. I am tired of giving my all and it not being enough, that when I do everything I'm supposed to do I am then told to remind them later to do their part. I am tired of sacrificing little pieces of myself only to be told I am still not enough

I need to feel wanted for who I am.