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I've seen several profiles from women who say they're looking for someone real, so I'll try to be as real as possible.

- I've known that I was into bondage ever since I was a kid, long before I understood what those feelings meant. As I explored more, I came to realize that I was into D/s too, and that I wanted to find a woman who shared these feelings.

- The old adage says that you can't get a job without experience, and you can't get experience without a job. The same is true for BDSM. I have some experience, but not as much as I'd like, and I don't claim to be an expert. Some of this will be a learning experience for me too.

- I like bondage, and I have a few kinks of my own, which I'll share with you if you ask, but I've never really been into the stereotypical leather/whips/chains/fetishwear, etc... I much prefer some rope and a handful of scarves. I'm also not into heavy S&M either. However, I'm not inflexible, and I believe in pleasing my partner. Ballgags aren't my thing, but if that's what you love being gagged with, I'll indulge you.

- I'm not looking for a slave or 24/7 power exchange. I'm looking for a submissive woman who loves being bound, gagged, blindfolded, and controled. A woman who wants to be dominated, but who also wants to be cuddled and cared for afterwards. But I also want someone who I can have fun with outside the bedroom. Someone intelligent who I can talk to and laugh with, and who has opinions of her own and loves a good conversation.

- I understand that bdsm requires trust, so I'm not going to expect to tie you up on the first date. I'm willing to be patient and take the time to let things develop, and I'd like to meet someone who's looking for a relationship, not just play.

- I'm drug and disease free. I don't smoke, rarely drink, and I have no piercings or tattoos. I look like a "normal" guy on the outside, and I'm most comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt. I have pictures I can share, and I assume you will as well. I have my own place and a car, but I'm not rich by any means. I'm also something of a geek: I like video games and kung fu movies and fantasy novels and so on. If you're a geek too, that's great, but not necessary, just so long as you're geek friendly.

- And finally, I love dogs, but I'm allergic to cats.