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UPDATE 2010:

Hello,

Kindly read a few times thru my profile. Here is me in a nutshell.

I found that men I meet online tend to think just because they meet a woman online they don't need to make effort to get to know that person aka. Phone calls, outings etc.

Even just to build a friendship and maintain it do you need to put in effort. More than often I find it's ME who does all the effort.

I HATE it when someone is so lame to say “I will call you”….just for an excuse not to call at all. Pls. be more original that inviting me to “coffee” and then expecting this high instant chemistry to occur on the spot while you grill me for my life history on the first meet.

I seek friends that will take some of that burden away and contribute to the process of building friendships. Ideally one will become more than just a friend...and if not, hopefully I will get a few good friends that are not just online. I seek a committed relationship and partner to build a life with. But it all starts as two people in a vanilla world.

I seek someone that is open to going abroad for a visit OR to work a year or two.

I seek someone that can still use a telephone.

Yes for Commitment.

Yes to someone that has travelled abroad.

Yes to someone that’s higher educated than high school.

Yes to someone that is EMOTIONALLY mature AND emotionally available.

Yes for kink IF WE GET to a committed and intimate relationship.

Yes for a platonic friend to hang out with.

No to open relationships and swinging.

No to friends with benefits.

No to casual sex.

No to online.

No to “instant chemistry” – to get to know me require TIME and WORK.

I NEED to meet a man that still has honour and DO AS HE SAY HE WILL DO.

The intent of this is to weed out the ones that are just doing the merry-go-round. If that’s you – go elsewhere. I seek those that will make effort – even just to build a platonic friendship.

If you do not want to put in the time…then I’m the wrong person for you. Simple.

Ok – if you got this far – great J

Take care

Snow.

Hello there, As we all grow and develop in our journey of life it's sometimes worthwhile updating / changes a profile. Ok to start with...I don't fit into anyone's "box". I find people try to fit others into some kind of social "box" with expectations of how/who they should be. Reality is...they only do that in order to know how to approach you without doing any real effort to get to know the person. I'm someone you need to spend time with....IF you are sincere in getting to know me. I am not an open book. There's a multitude of aspects to me...i'm a masochist, babygirl, brat, SAM..but also have Domme aspects, sadistic side. Sometimes I'm very confident and strong and know what I want...other times i'm soft, cuddly and want a MAN to take care of me. Confused? *smiles* __Few things that I seek and value: consistency + loyalty + honesty + sincerity __ I am tired on "cyber" though and prefer the old fashioned methods of getting to know ppl - such as phone calls, hanging out etc. I'm also not one for casual sex nor do i seek "chemistry". I'd rather just meet for simple friendship. I prefer to meet in person in the real world as I belief that's the only way to truely get to know someone. Perhaps in good time..if the effort and desire is there...more may develop with one person. :) I have experience as a sub/bottom - ONLY to WHOM i choose and those that put in the effort to earn that trust and build rapport. I definitely don't live it as a way of living. I can always add to my experiences and there's much more to learn that i don't know ... yet...*winks* I've started to add to my experiences as a Domme..though it's all in baby steps - so anyone interested need to apply some patients while I learn...*smiles*; To me dishonesty and deceipt is the works of someone that has zero maturity and no honour. __About me...and some of my intersts:__ I have plenty to offer vanilla world: _Commitment, adventure, creativity, willingness to learn and explore._
_I'm a nature enthusiast, love to travel and am fairly open minded. I enjoy intellectual conversations._
_I'm a private person...but also fairly direct._
_It takes time to build trust and rapport with me.
_ Here is some of my bdsm interests: _Bondage, spanking, whipping, fire play, wax play, clamps, outdoors, orgasm denial, teazing, toys, vibrators, butt-plugs, begging, discreet public play._ Want to know more...? Ask away. Ultimately - I'm seeking someone that is willing to meet me half way in contributing to maintaining the relationship. I occasionally travel to Dubai...would love to meet a man that want to be part of my life and undertake some adventures with me. __Not into:__
* casual sex,
* extra-marrital activities,
* swinging nor poly. I have a wicked creative mind..wrote a few erotic stories as well :) BDSM to me is NOT a 24/7 thing - it only add to intimacy, creativity, adventure and spice up sex. REMEMBER: Before you even think of asking me to sub/dominate for/to you....being HUMAN comes FIRST. If you don't understand what I mean...ASK. I love to cuddle and fall asleep in my partner's arms. I enjoy walking in the rain or falling asleep during a thunderstorm. I'm fasinated by snow and amazed by aurora's. I'm not seeking just casual intimate "play" as my body,heart and mind is one...if you want access to one....then you're responsible for the rest - it's a 'package' deal. On the other hand...in a Switch role i can do some light play on someone as the Domme...no need for me to have an emotional connection - it's more when i have to submit to someone that i need that security that comes from a relationship. Thanks for reading. take care
Snow.

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8/28/2013 7:48:55 PM

I can't help but to wonder...all those males that is so FOCUSED on "connection".....do you even know what that entail?? Did you actually think WHAT EXACTLY does it mean...? What action entail "connection"...ever thought it thru..?


4/21/2013 10:15:54 AM

April 2013: Sadly - Mom's short-term memory (Alzheimers) is now of such that she can't remember on Sat. nite anything we talked about on Thursday nite. Very difficult to deal with from afar.

Since I posted re my Mom several Members have emailed me in support & empathy. I thank you all sincerely for that.

If anyone know the NAME of the Alzheimers meds that slow it down - please let me know.


5/23/2011 4:30:01 PM

2011 - Uncertain Times:

 

Last weekend (around 14/15 May) I had a long conversation with my mom. We talked for 1.5hour...that's very rare as we mostly talk for 10 minutes at a time and sometimes 20 min or so.

 

From this conversation it became apparent that Mom have a gutt feeling that she have Alzheimer's disease.

 

It was allready on the cards for a few years as Mom's mother (my grandmother) passed away with advanced Alzheimer's in early 2010 - just before Mom got a hip replacement. It was as if the news made Mom's hip worsen at a higher speed and invasive surgery was needed. She ended up with infection in winter of 2010 and I wanted to drop out of school and rush to be with her. I ended up sticking to school...and worrying on this end of the globe....

 

Mom got thru the infection and eventually the hip healed.

 

For a couple of years Mom would say she suspect she inherited Alzheimers from her mother. She'd then also joke about it and she she'll grow old, and just forget everything. We didn't take any of this too serious - not even Mom as we also knew part of getting older is becoming more forgetful. Yet - it was always in the background as it runs on Mom's side of the family.

 

Although we can either laugh or cry or be angry (or a mix of all these emotions) about things we have little control over...right now we're reducing the laughter and trying to see what we ca do to get a formal diagnosis and subsequent medication that may slow down the disease.

 

Well...last weekend Mom discussed in all seriousness that she know in her gutt that she does have Alzheimers. I had a horrible couple of days...trying to figure out what I can do for her as she's in the UAE and I'm in Canada.

 

Since then I've been trying to find out thru contacts in Dubai what's available locally for her.

 

I've also contacted the AB Alzheimer's Society and a few local friends for support and advice.

 

Last night I talked with Mom again. Today she sent me a cognitive Alzheimers test that she did online. It's put together by specialists in the field and designed as a first step towards diagnosis.

 

I now have to deal with the emotional turmoil of all this amidst school, exams, balancing finances and other stresses.

 

I wanted to either find a great job after graduation that will lead to a sucessful career or pursue a Master's degree.

 

Now Mom's health need to get priority - not my own goals.

 

Distance don't make this any easier....

 

With everything going on now it makes 2011 look very uncertain...


5/24/2010 11:00:51 AM
My Pet Peeves:

1 - I find most men that goes online to be spineless. Where is a man with a backbone..?? What happen to the man that takes some innitiative to call?

2 - AND Since when do u meet and instantly have a r.ship / chemistry....?? That takes time.

3 - Why can't u meet and make friends instead of having all these fantasy-like expectations..??

4 - Everyone claim they seek someone -- YET -- barely anyone is ready to make the effort to spend time vs. expect it to be there instantly.


12/3/2008 6:32:07 PM
Hello to All

Some may wonder...who am i?

(Pic added to profile...and it's not what you'd expect! giggles)

So here's a bit of a description...

i don't fit into anyone's "box" though i don't mind getting lil'boxes with sum wrapping; When you think you have me figured out i will surprise you;
To deal with me you need the skill of thinking outside the box and be open minded.
I'm also a private person...so...to get to know me takes time.

I'm not an open book - specially innitially.  I can be very assertive, yet - to the right man - i can be very submissive.   Depend on circumstances / company - i can be either extroverted or introverted.
 
I can be very flirty,  hot and sexy..or very much "girl next door".

I love adventure..yet..i also like "lazy day's" at home. I like to go to parties...but also comfy at home in front of a fire. I'm passionate about people i care about,  loyal and will bend over backwards.


However - you can walk over me only for so long...untill i either retaliate or withdraw internally - physically and mentally. Sometimes i choose to let things go as it's exhausting to be assertive constantly - don't mistake that for being a doormat. Even though i may not say things...memory has a funny way of reminding one if events are often re-occuring - good or bad. 

I've travelled extensively  and strongly belief that it widen your horizons, help you to be more open minded and understand various cultures.

Would you like to know more? (wink)

Floor is open...

3/14/2008 4:47:49 AM
Dear Reader,

As far as my "willing to relocate" - my ideal is to find a place in country side / woods...somewhere close to water...in a snug cabin ;)

I do realize that we don't always get what we want...so...i'm willing to compromize if someone's willing to put in effort for me as well.  Though i have to say...living in a large,big city is pushing it a bit...but who know's...if u ask me nice'ly..and have an "escape" cabin closeby.....he,he

What i find is that loads of people say "will relocate" - but they have no intention on really doing so.  The same with those that say "can travel to meet"...however - plenty appear to only use it as a matter of playing with words.

Well - take care for now...gotta run. :)

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