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| I'm not looking to take on a full-time submissive, not because I'm secretly married, I'm just not open to that for right now. I'm looking for real meets, and I'd much prefer to develop a connection we can both enjoy without the complications that a full time relationship brings.
Getting to know each other on somewhat of a human level before we embark on sexual misadventures together is crucial. Anyone who disagrees is not entirely sane and fundamentally wrong. Firstly, it's important to know how far you can really take someone without careering into being just out-and-out abusive. Secondly, if you don't explore the nuances of someone's personality; their needs, their wants, their desires, their experiences, who they are and how they see themselves; how can you possibly hope to really dominate them? And besides, working with a formless lump of clay to begin with isn't any fun at all. So, please have a personality, even if it's a rubbish one. As well as the bdsm side of things, I'd like for us to be able to enjoy one another's company, reflect on our experiences, and have conversations without the context of D/s.
I'm not into causing any kind of permanent damage, no bloodletting, no weird illegal stuff. There's probably others that I haven't thought of but I shall let you know. I'm mostly interested in humiliation play and its various subdivisions. You don't need to be heavily masochistic as giving physical pain isn't a must for me, but if you're mildly masochistic then that'd be a bonus.
Outside of D/s I'm mostly into music, film, literature, art, armchair philosophy and amateur psychology. I'm not as pretentious as my profile suggests, honest. I'm fine with sending pictures after we've spoken a while, discretion is important. Worth mentioning though, I'm a UK20, so you'd need to have either a preference for, or an acceptance of, that kind of physique.
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