Ok let’s get the thank you for reading my profile bit over with.

I love to go out for meal’s a drink in the local pub, meeting up with friends sometimes just to chat other times to play, you can normally find me in the UK room and the Extreme room chatting and having a good laugh, like to watch film’s and go to car boot sales (one day am sure I’ll find someone selling a flogger at one) laughing here as I think it would be funny. Watching all the nillas picking it up.

Right now for the really serious.

I’ve been in the life a fair number of year’s but like everyone am still learning. Learning about myself and learning about others. I’m from Liverpool and very proud to be a scouser. Now a little about me and BDSM , some would call me hard core and a purist and to a degree they are right, a purist because I object to having to dress up to get in most club’s, I don’t need to dress up to Dominate someone and it’s not a role I play , I am Dominant and don’t need to open my wardrobe and pick a outfit out that say’s Dominant for the day, I don’t do sex with my BDSM and I don’t do what submissive’s ask me to do, with in there limit’s I do what I want when I want, DON’T ask me to cyber, I only do real BDSM face to face. I have done many thing’s in the scene , I have helped to set up a BDSM club a fetish market and ran a munch, I don’t mind helping people in the room’s with info, I have made a great number of friend’s on this site some are just online friends but most are real and share my love of BDSM.

Hard core more because of the pain I like to inflict, I can do the warm up’s the easy play for newbie’s letting them learn about there wants and need’s, but for me to full fill my need’s I need to inflict pain the more the better, but not to someone who enjoys pain, it has to be someone who take’s the pain to please me.

Am not looking for any new submissive as I am very happy with my slavet, he is my heart and soul, the submissive/man partner I would give my life for, he give’s me everything I could every want, he will take the pain for as long as I need to give it and he hates pain, but everyday he is there for me giving me everything he is and more. Am very proud of him. I also have only one maid now a domestic maid, he will be leavings me soon as he is moving I am very sad about this, so I am now starting to look for a new Domestic Maid not a sissy maid or TV maid but Domestic maid mail me if you feel you could be a Domestic maid to me. Please email me with some of your detail’s .I will put a short list together and let you know if you made it on to the list.

A final word I don’t like bullshit, don’t like fake’s and don’t like weekender’s, BDSM is my life and I don’t like people who I feel are taking the piss out of it.