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Hetero Male Dominant, 29,  Denver, Colorado
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This update has been waiting far too long, so here it is 9917. My name is Shawn. When I was introduced to the lifestyle over six years ago, I didnt see it as an interest or activity rather a new vocabulary to describe a mindset that I have always had. I strongly identify as a Dominant personality not merely from my masculinity, but my capacity to get into a persons head. I view humankind as primal and animalistic creatures and value instinct highly. In juxtaposition, I identify first and foremost an intellectual within that, an academic. I have studied Psychology, and am continuing my studies into aerospace. Ive worked in various industries and roles, even since I was a child instilling me with a strong work ethic.

I have recently been lucky to find myself living with and the dominant of BiteandSwitch. While having been interested in kink for some time, she is newer to the experience of it. I have had the pleasure of introducing her to the community as well as several fetishes. We are interested in becoming more involved in the local scene, including making new friends and attending nearby events. Additionally, we are seeking a submissive or slave woman (or right couple) to bring into our bedroom or find friendship with like-minded individuals here online. We also each have fetlife profiles with more pictures and bios we are Poctarious and BiteandSwitch. Please do not hesitate to contact me for this, or any other consideration. We do bite, but only with consent.

My flavor of dominant tends to run primal, andor controlling. My kinks are many, and ever growing, but some various examples include redheads, hypnosis, stockings, kissing, power exchange, petite, primal, role-play, bondage, weapon play, oral sex, Asians, orgasm control, fire play, exhibitionism, small breasts, consensual non-consent, impact play, Ms, unis, erotica, poly, Irish, outdoor play, masturbation, sensation play, Ds, sex games, skirts, sadomasochism, anal sex, fantasy, hygiene, body modification, chemical alteration, electrical play, voyeurism, sensory deprivation, safe words, online play, intelligence play, videosphotos, threesomes, teasing, geeks, discipline, throats, and toys. This is by no means an exhaustive list and in no particular order, but it gives you an idea. Additionally, there are darker tastes I have but those are very circumstantial and depend highly on the other individuals involved.

More than nearly anything I love good stories, and my vanilla hobbies tend to revel in that. I enjoy books of many genres, especially sci-fi, fantasy, history, fiction, autobiographies, theology, short stories, poetry, graphic novels, classic literature, maps, and pretty much anything else ever published. I have similar taste in other s of media, such as movies and television shows. My musical preferences are similarly diverse, including 90s alternative, British invasion, classical, rock of most eras, jazz, folk, punk, Celtic, and to a lesser extent anything else aside from raphip-hop and country. I enjoy playing games of many styles including tabletop rp, board, card, sport, mind, and video games. Ever a Coloradan, I love the outdoors and enjoy camping, fishing, hiking, running, sports, swimming, and mountain driving.

Thank you for your time and consideration reading this. Respectful comments and questions are always accepted.













 Dominant Male



 5' 8"

 61 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Female

Sub/Sub Couples


Online Romance

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Role Playing Games (Expert)

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 Astronomy (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Nanotechnology (Expert)

 Psychology (Expert)


 Classical Music

 Nineties Music


 Amusement Parks (Expert)

 Coffee Shops



 Musical Theater (Beginner)

 Travel (Expert)



 Martial Arts


 Yoga (Beginner)


 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship

 Bondage (Beginner)

 You wearing my collar


 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Being Massaged

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Housework Service

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Selecting the clothes you wear

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Spanking you

 Wax Play (Beginner)


 Cybering (Beginner)

 Online RPGs

 Cooking (Expert)

 Photography (Beginner)


 Archaeology (Beginner)

 Biology (Beginner)

 Chemistry (Beginner)

 Cryonics (Expert)



 Nihilism (Expert)





 Victorian Lifestyle

 Alternative Music

 Folk Music

 Opera Music

 Rock Music




 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Fine Dining


 Going to the Opera (Beginner)

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)





 Horseback Riding

 Hunting (Beginner)


 Scuba Diving

 Breast Play


 Canes and Crops


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Rear End Play

 Fire Play (Beginner)


 Hair Pulling


 Placing you on a leash

 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner


 Sensation Play

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Sensory Play

 Speech Restrictions

 You wearing stockings


 Arcade Games (Beginner)

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Chess (Expert)

 Comedy Shows

 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies


 Online Chatrooms

 Puzzle Games

 Simulation Games


 Art Collecting (Beginner)

 Body Art

 Cross Stitch

 Drawing (Beginner)


 Meditation (Beginner)

 Sculpting (Beginner)

 Singing (Beginner)

 Libertarian Politics


 Poetry (Beginner)

 Political Activism

 1950s Lifestyle



 Lifestyle BDSM (Beginner)

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music


 Punk Rock Music



 Feng Shui


 Horse Racing





 Bar Hopping



 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Rubber Fetish


 Web Surfing

 Alternative Medicine

 Astrology (Expert)

 Karaoke (Beginner)

 Sewing (Beginner)

 Liberal Politics

 Paranormal Phenomena

 The Occult (Expert)

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 New Age Music

 Modern Paganism



 Curious About:

 SCA (Beginner)



 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Exhibitionism (Beginner)

 Domestic Service

 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism



 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play


 Suspension Bondage

 Candle Making




 Blue Grass






 Latter-day Saints


 Sky Diving


 Skate Boarding

 Corner Time


 Conservative Politics


 Hip Hop Music

 Pop Music









 Genital Punishment

 TV News

 Country Music

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Journal Entries:
2/7/2023 9:48:23 AM

Wow they got the journal feature back up and running, thought the site had been pretty much abandoned. Haven't been around in a while on here and have been more active on fet and rbm. Still always love meeting new people, learning and teaching as much as I can, and growing connections in this wide world we find ourselves in. 

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