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Hetero Male Master, 38,  Kitchener Ontario, Canada
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Just for the record, Im not looking for a mindless doormat. I dont want a sub or slave who cant engage me in at least some sort of conversation. I find it highly frustrating if I ask you what you like and your reply is I dont know...whatever you like. I need to feel your passion for this. I need to know you truly get off on kinky, dirty, extreme, intense and taboo. Im not saying it always has to be extreme I believe in balance. But at least be able to tell me what excites you and what draws you into this life. Be able to express yourself...thoughts, feelings, fears, emotions and desires.

Im a 39m dominant from Ontario. Ive been into bdsm for about 18yrs and in that time, Ive learned a lot but of course, there is still so much to learn and experience. Im into a great many things from the more tame to the more taboo and extreme. I would love to find a smart, sexy, sub or slave who absolutely craves and adores being used, abused, humiliated and degraded. Of course, those terms mean different things to different people, so until we chat, theres no way to know if our interests and desires match up. Im open to meets and playing but what I really seek is a subslave for a 247 ltr. However, for the time being, I would consider some online chat and casual meets.

On the vanilla side of things, I work full time, have a home, car, great family and friends and enjoy either going out or staying in. Im a nerd and Im proud to admit it. I love computers, video games, sci-fi, fantasy, home theater, technology and more. I build computers as a bit of a hobby too.However, Im not all nerd. I play softball, golf and I enjoy snowboarding. I love to go out and party with friends and Im also content to spend a quiet night watching some good tv or a movie. As I said before, I believe in I think for a true bdsm relationship there also has to be a vanilla connection. )

I suppose thats all for now. Talk to you soon!











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 Dominant Male

 Kitchener Ontario 


 5' 11"

 185 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:




 Anal Play


 Canes and Crops




 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service



 Massage (Getting)

 Mental Bondage

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish




 Science Fiction






 Breast Play




 Electrical Play


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community


 Gas Masks



 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Vacuum Stimulation


 Wax play


 Board Games




 Ice Hockey








 Genital Punishment

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Journal Entries:
5/25/2015 10:12:29 PM

Our experiences are what brought us here. Some good and some bad but all parts of who we were, who we are and who we will become. We are the sum of these people and events. We might sometimes wish we could go back and do things differently but it is our failures, weaknesses and struggles that ultimately make us stronger.

Quietly take pride in all you have survived and achieved, draw strength from that which tested your limits and above all, never underestimate yourself!

You are perfect in your imperfection.

3/31/2015 11:31:55 AM

I am...

I am darkness, I am light
I am laughter in the night.

I am rage, I am calm
I am thunder at break of dawn.

I am twisted, bent and broken
See my eyes, feel words unspoken.

I am sadness, I am joy
Both a man and little boy.

I chew you up and then I swallow
I am full but still feel hollow.

I am balance, right and wrong
Black and white, sword and song.

There is no light without the dark
There is no soul without a spark.

There is no beauty without beast
Embrace your dark to bring you peace.

2/13/2015 10:41:42 AM
I've seen many subs say it on here...intelligence is sexy.  Proper grammar and grasp of the english language is a huge plus.  The same goes in reverse; I adore a sub or slave with an exceptional vocabulary and great language skills.  

I'll also admit there is something inherently sexy about a woman who's smart, loves taboo, knows she really shouldn't do it but does anyhow because she craves that filthy feeling.  ;)

12/21/2013 10:02:10 AM

We wear our masks each day

to conceal the thought and feeling deep within.

We hide the innermost portions of our soul;

fearful that the world will not understand.

We dread our insecurities.

We shy from our dreams,

terrified we might try and fail.


Another day of letting others see only the mask;

for the mask protects us.

It shields us from judgement,

it exists as a fragile shell to deflect that which we most fear.

That those around us might ridicule what we hold dear.

We aren't strong or brave enough

to be the person we know lives deep inside.


And so once again, the mask is donned

To protect us for another day

against the harsh realities....

of life.

2/3/2013 7:41:11 AM

Recently installed a new hard drive and re-installed Windows.  And strangely, now my private chat works again.   I wonder how long that will last...

10/20/2012 12:53:00 PM

I see a lot of profile for subs or slaves stating that they are owned and not seeking anyone else.  Honestly, I think it's sad they would even have to state that.  Are there that many ignorant so-called dominants out there trying to steal you away from your current dom/master that you've actually had to spell it out?


Let's show a little class and respect, people.  If someone is owned, it's exceptionally rude, ignorant and disrespectful to be trying to somehow woo them away from their current dominant.

10/11/2012 3:37:27 PM

Well after months of having no problems, now I don't seem to be able to use the private chat anymore.  I've updated my java and still having no luck.  Anyone have any suggestions?


Any help is appreciated!!

7/12/2012 4:36:38 PM

I'm a firm believer that you never know what you might find when you're not looking for it...

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