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MagicMarie
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BlushZenovka
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Thesse
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41 years old, over 20 years of knowledge just looking for romance and maybe a LTR with D/s and BDSM in East Anglia, the Midlands, London (Or maybe further afield for the right person).
Women aged 18 to 30 (Guideline) who like the idea of exploring bondage and S/M and maybe bondage modelling (I'm a Pro-Am Photographer) etc. and who would like to meet and play with a slightly older, fun loving man drop me a line.
I terms of a D/s relationship, the right woman gets the guy. I would be looking for a long term realtionship with a submissive I can explore all the above with. I'm monogamous and would not normally tend to show interest in a poly relationship as it just doesn't seem to be intimate enough.
I am a "one submissive" Master when I find her. I can't stand Dominants who ask their submissives to find extra slaves, unless the initial submissive wants to expore a desire to Dominate another herself, then it's just disrespectful to the person giving you the gift of their submission.
Personality wise I'm friendly, intelligent and sane and, most importantly, a good listener.
I only have these photos on my profile (A little kidnap roleplay?). Once we've chatted for a while I'm more than happy to supply one or two face pictures. If, after that, things are still going well, then I'm happy to take you for lunch, a drink or a just a cup of coffee. :)
If you love bondage (Both rope - shibari is something I'd love to practice - and steel), gags and all the other wonderful aspects for this subject, and have a sense of adventure when it comes to trying things out, call me. I'm open to quite a few things and kidnap/interrogation scenes are of interest to me as well.
Also if I contact you, and you are not interested, instead of deleting the message unread (Which is just rude), how about you just say 'Thanks but no thanks'? It's basic courtesy and anyone who shows a lack of respect when it is shown to them is not considered a submissive and will now find themselves blocked from contacting me in the future. The reasoning behind this is, if you have an attitude like that, then I don't want to know you and you don't want me contacting you by mistake again.
If, however, you are a genuine, respectful, submissive who repsonds to polite contact, then feel free to say hello.
Hope to hear from you soon, Richard
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Some people are just plain rude. I don't normally name and shame but welsh26staci asks for friends, so coming from the same hometown as her I send her a friendly hello message and it's deleted unread.
So her loss. I have plenty more friends in the Chelmsford area who are into D/s and if I ever see her at a munch or event she'll be duly ignored as well as going on the blocked list. :) |
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There are some very strange people on here.
Still the friends I have are wonderful :) |
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There are some very strange people on here. You say hello to someone and they immediately think you want to enslave them????
Then they point out that you are not interested in exeperienced slaves. Hello! Was I asking you to be a slave? No I was saying hello.
A perfectly polite reply gets pulled apart and then they complain that people no longer talk to them.
Is it any wonder? |
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Wow. What a day! Some old friends have come onto Collarme, met some new friends on here and another site. Another vanilla friend has, sadly, split with her boyfriend so tea and sympathy is on it's way. My several hundred thousand pound project has hit an incredibly tiny problem (Not my fault) that has meant it can't be finished today - how annoying!
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Currently exploring Electrical Torture Play. have a few ideas on some nasty toys. |
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Logging back in for a while and taking a look through the profiles I've seen something I consider worth being concerned about. It happens quite a bit with people who are never really involved with the online and real life communities.
In short I feel sorry for some of the girls on here. What is it with some older Masters and Mistresses who see the need to take control of a submissive's account here? I've seen it several times and, my opinion only, seems very childish as well as a bad invasion of privacy. Don't you trust your submissives? Do you think your age gap is so big (Because that usually seems to be behind it) that she's going to run of with a much younger guy? Anyone who is seriously involved with D/s at any level knows the keyword is trust. That doesn't just mean your submissive trusting you not to kill them while ther're tied up - it's also about trusting eachother emotionally and with your loyalty.
I think the reason I haven't found someone here (Although I have lots of friends on IC) is because the new submissives just accept that when someone they see as older and wiser tells them that that's the way it is. They then go through their life with D/s believing that if they are allowed to chat and make friends elsewhere that the Dom, or Domme, doesn't care.
Reality check girls, anyone who wants to control who you talk to is going to making you drop your real life friends and pretty soon your family too in a desperate bid to cling onto a sex toy.
My advice will always be take your time - I know Masters of anything up to 60+ who have a much firmer grip on the reality of lifestyle D/s. They treat the realtionship as just that, a relationship. They will treat you with respect and respect your friendships.
People who ban their submissives from chatting to other Doms and who, eventually, start badgering them to get their girlfriends involved are usually the ones who started out in chatrooms trying to pull anything that sounded remotely young and female.
Remember girls: Take care, play safe and have fun. After all that's what relationships are all about. :) |
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Oh well - finally getting the notion that there are no submissive females between 18 and 30 in the Essex/London/Kent or Norfolk area looking for a caring Dominant/Bondage Partner.
So I doubt I'll be logging in here again for quite a while and will be sticking to the more realistic site of www.informedconsent.co.uk. |
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I should have updated long ago - nothing came of the relationship as we were both looking for different things.
It was very painful for a while there.
I am still looking for a submissive young friend to practice bondage and S/M with.
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Well I'm still here and the profile says chat only. That can only mean one thing right? I have found a beautiful young submissive of my very own. Things are going well and we've been chatting for a couple of months or so now (And a couple of short phone calls) and we hope to meet soon for a chat and a cuppa. If we like eachother then I hope to be tying her up and gagging her soon after. :) I won't say who she is as she may not want me to but she is very beautiful. :) |
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Changed the profile to say pretty much what I'm looking for but this is probably the last attempt for a while.
Having no luck in finding a beautiful submissive of my own. |
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Still looking for that elusive young woman who wants to be a slave/submissive/friend to a 35 year old Master with a huge collection of bondage and SM equipment.
So far they all get collared before I can meet up with them Being philosophical about it all. |
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Age: 26 |
Charlotte,
North Carolina |
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