It seems to be hard to find people that are really or aren't complete and total assholes of weirdos. I understand that this scene can have a tendency to find different people then you see everyday but the predatory nature of a lot of people is sad. I see a lot of "doms" that simply want others to buy them things and have no want to reciprocate in any way shape or form, then again maybe that's someones thing. I'm just at odds trying to penetrate the wall that seems to be everywhere I look.