A sub who is wanting to serve must understand these basics. I expect you to obey me. This seems like fundamentals but I am finding out that it is not. I ask you to respect my timeframes and my decisions. If you are not able to do that, then we are right for each other.
I am currently have a bad experience with sub I only meet once for a drink. Boundaries are being cross which will effect all rest of my potential subs. I have never had a situation where my boundaries and limits are crossed by a sub.
I am serious about the finding a sub but it just important for me to have a sub I care about and like. I don't think I am asking to much to want to get to know you. If I am then I am not right for you and you are not right for me. I do not think I am being unreasonable.
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