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First, I am going to state that I do have clear face pics of myself. However I work for my family’s business which includes a lot of face to face across multiple states. Thus pics of me are provided only on request or only when I contact you.
Now a little about me. I am 28, unmarried, and straight. I am not going to sit here and tell you how serious I am, every fake says that. However I would not put this much thought into something that I was not doing seriously.
I am not for everyone, I say what I think, and mean what I say. This does not work out well with people who need constant affirmation. Moreover I do not have this pathological, pervasive, and cowardly aversion to confrontation that so many people have these days. My friends call me a straight-shooter; I call it having a very low tolerance for BS. While I do not choose my words to anger people, neither is avoiding it part of how I choose what I say. I do not bend in the wind, and my ability to remain rigid is one of my strengths. One I think every Dominant should have, if you cannot be firm in your day to day life and in your dealings with other people, how can you actually exert control over even a willing person?
I’ve been told once or twice that I take myself too seriously, because of this. That’s fine, while I will use self-deprecating humor for a laugh, if I cannot take myself seriously why should anyone else take me seriously? You cannot earn the respect of others if you do not have it yourself, in the same way you cannot gain respect from those you do not show it to.
I have been called sexist a few times, mainly because I believe there is merit in gender roles. I believe that to simply reject these roles and the 10,000+ years of history behind them is supremely arrogant. I learned some time ago that the reason people keep repeating the same mistakes throughout history, is largely due to the arrogance of people who think they are just that much smarter than our ancestors. The same ancestors who successfully laid the foundations for, and secured the survival of our species. The same ancestors who did it without all of the fancy luxury and technology we have to day. The same ancestors who actually had to work and suffer for the success of the human race. If it makes me sexist to think a man should be authoritative, be protector and leader so be it.
Every man is a soldier in the day to day war of life, and no war is won by timidity or indecision. I see merit in hearing the woman’s point of view, as it takes an ego more inflated than my own to think any one person can anticipate everything himself. But in the end, a man must be a man, and must be ready to make a decision.
If you have not noticed by now I am prone to intellectual digression, as in I will get going on a train of thought and go with it until it reaches its conclusion. You will want to consider if you find that tendency endearing or annoying.
I first took interest in this lifestyle at 14, was first able to give it some trial at 16, and since then D/s is the only type of relationship I have had any interest in. I am looking for someone who is young, and ready to be obedient. Experience is a non-issue to me, because I became involved in this at such a young age I have become accustomed to working with the inexperienced. In many ways I prefer it, taking someone new, and molding them is no different than any other work of art. Being a writer, this is something I understand well.
I seek someone who understand I do not argue, arguing implies equality and this is at its heart an asymmetric relationship format as it should be.
I seek someone who is ready to delve into this as a lifestyle, not simply a bedroom activity. That means 24/7, every day of the year.
I seek someone ready to obey. Someone who understand that if your Dominant has earned your trust and your respect, understanding is not required, only obedience.
I seek someone who is ready for me to get into their head, and begin re-wiring how things go on in there.
If you are still reading at this point, thank you. I deliberately wrote this profile to be longer than the average person’s attention span, and if you are still here then we should talk.
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