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Dom/Switch Couple, 59/50,   Ottawa, Canada
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Sirandlil1 - photo 1
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Masterslave couple seeking
Sorry but we live in the real world..real friends ....real people...not interested in cyber
Please read our entire profile before you email us!We are a mature, responsible, committed couple who live and play as Master slave. We practice safe, sane and consensual at all times. We believe in discretion.

We do not need fixing nor are we missing something in our relationship, but after the last five years of establishing a solid foundation we have decided to expand our boundaries and experience. We wish to involve a submissive couple or a single submissive female into our our lives play scenes.

He is strictly hetro and only interested in female sub play. She is bi and looking looking to expand her experiences in domination as an alpha slave. Both are non -smoking, fit, healthy, outgoing with many interests including running, biking, tennis, travel and fine wine.

We are physically active. We are also intelligent, professional, mature and responsible, you should be similar. You should have no bratty tendencies ( scene related) and be looking to explore Master slave flavored play both privately and at community ran events.

Friendship, trust and mutual attraction is key to developing the type of relationship we desire.

If interested please be prepared to exchange recent photos and online conversation before determining if we should meet. If all that comes from this is friendship then our paths are well met.
Interested in meeting the real you when a comfort and interest level is reached.Sir lil one






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Gender Identity:










 5' 11"

 190 lbs




Gender Identity:










 5' 7"

 160 lbs



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples

 Lives For:


 Collars (Expert)


 Fine Dining


 Musical Theater





 Begging (Expert)


 Breast Play


 Canes and Crops (Expert)



 Local BDSM Community

 Leashes (Expert)

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial (Expert)

 Public Play  (Expert)



 Wax play


 Card Games

 Web Surfing


 Gorean Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Ice Hockey



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries



 Martial Arts


 Anal Play


 Corner Time (Expert)

 Electrical Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Fire Play


 Hair Pulling



 Maid/Butler Service

 Outdoor Bondage

 Speech Restrictions


 Comedy Shows



 Online RPGs

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction


 True Crime

 TV News





 Conservative Politics

 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics


 1950s Household

 Old Guard

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass


 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music


 New Age Music

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music


 Rock Music

 Seventies Music


 Street Hockey




 Classical Music



 Hip Hop Music


 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 Industrial Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Hard Limits:


 Sky Diving

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Journal Entries:
1/15/2012 10:43:19 PM

It is said, in a Gorean proverb, that a man, in his heart, desires freedom, and that a woman, in her belly, yearns for love. The collar, in its way, answers both needs. The man is most free, owning the slave. He may do what he wishes with her. The woman, on the other hand, being owned, is institutionally and helplessly subject, in her status as slave, to the submissions of love.
Slave Girl of Gor - Page 180

11/18/2011 6:49:51 AM

Well the 24 months that we spent living in two places while  lil1 was in Montreal have come and gone..... we can now look back on that time as one of those tests that make a strong relationship even stronger...


While we still have strong ties in the Toronto area we both now call Ottawa home and are enjoying being together again and getting to know the local community

9/15/2010 3:52:05 PM
"Do masters ever love their slaves?" she asked.
"Often," I said.
Blood Brothers of Gor - Pages 101


Three years ago today my steel was placed around your prove everyday it was the best decision I have ever made


9/6/2009 1:31:11 PM

Well the day has finally arrived, the one we knew was coming, the one we dreaded…

lilone has moved to Montreal…we had months to accept that it will happen, months to prepare…

we know that it will only be for two years…we know while it will test us, it will only serve to make us stronger…

taking the next 24 months in two month blocks we have already scheduled the weekend trips for the next two months…

and it does open up both Montreal and Ottawa as new play areas for us

3/22/2008 10:13:14 AM
Sir's gift to me on our 1 yr anniversary:

Daily Affirmation to be recited each morning upon rising and before retiring for sleep:

 i am owned
 Sir loves me without exception
 Sir keeps me safe from all harm
 Sir wants me before any other
 Sir thinks i am beautiful inside and out
 Sir knows i am special, i am his alone
 i am owned

Thank you Sir for finding me, owning me and giving me all that a submissive could ever ask for. 

i love You.


2/22/2008 10:08:34 AM
i love You more than any, my heart You always hold, Your name is always on my lips, 
my Sir, my Love, my Soul                            
lil1 - Feb14,2008

12/24/2007 11:09:01 PM
i am yours, unlike any other You've owned before
my body, Yours for the taking, possessing, using
my soul, yours to own, inspire, cherish

i give you my love, the beating of my heart
 i give my passion, the dreams and desires
 i give you my faith, free from all doubts
 i give you my heart, complete, no reserves
 i give you my body, use it as you will
 i give you my life, save it from harm

 my love knows no depths
 my desire no limits
 my passion all encompassing
 my faith complete
 my heart beats for you
 my body your domain
 my life in your hands

i am yours, in all ways conceivable
my gift to You is all that i am
You are my world
my Sir, my Master, my Love 

lil one {J}
xmas 2007

12/4/2007 6:09:01 PM
A submissive lives for the caress of a Master, the crack of a whip, the sting of a cane, the whisper of breath on skin, the acceptance of who they serve.
A Master is not for me to define, but know this, all you are defines a Master to me.


10/10/2007 5:37:44 PM
What is a "little one?"

A little one is small, not to be demeaned.
To be sheltered and protected but never looked down upon.
A little one is fragile though difficult to break.
She is handled as pleases and cared for when done.

A little one submits, with eagerness and joy.
Quietly she waits, for Master's orders to come.
A little one serves, willingly to please.
A patient enduring flower, unfurling only in Master's sun.

A little one never fears except should she displease
And to her Master only goes on bended knees
With tears of remorse and sadness she will meekly wait
Upon her Master's pleasure, he who holds her fate

She is not small for weakness she submits not out of fear
It is love for her Master, who holds her very dear
To no other is she little, no other is she one
But only to her Master, her life, her love, her sun.


9/16/2007 8:13:19 AM
The day dawn bright with autumn sun and cool gentle breezes. Awakening today, no more different than most days but so totally changed. Last night, Sir made formal our commitment to one another and presented me with His collar. Speechless, a state not normal for me, i could only stare up into His eyes and mutely nod before being able to finally whisper, "Yes please Sir." Our lives now inexplicably intertwined and completed by His steel. my heart, my soul, my body, my love all His and encircled by the protection and honor He so lovingly has given me.

littleone {J}

9/7/2007 8:48:57 PM

A true Master exhibits honor, integrity, honesty, self discipline, personal responsibility and caring for his property.

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