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angelWicked
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There are ideals we all hold fast to; integrity, honor, and character, and trust. To the best of our ability we attempt to attain these. And sometimes we fail. Yet since this way of life has imbued us with a purpose, we arise again to surmount our personal inadequacies. We are human. We shall continually strive to learn more during our journey.
A simple list, or explanation of what this way of living means to me is just not enough. Talk to me. If you want to learn more about me, ask. Only through time spent observing each other, putting forth questions, and then acting with decision upon the answers shall we reach an understanding.
The rest of the profile is a compilation of various thoughts I have had; some romantic, some intense, and hopefully a few thoughts informative, I trust you shall get a small glimpse into my world. Welcome. Thanks for taking the time.
To the woman whose compatibility meets mine we would share creativity; a desire for the elegance of simplicity in our lives; the certain awareness that wisdom holds more to inspire than the endless quest for empty knowledge; and the awareness that truth is relative to our personal, intimate experiences.
With passion there needs to be self-discipline, otherwise it is spent and wasted rather than channeled into a spiritual discovery of Self. Yes, I believe that romanticism can guide any partnership to a depth heretofore unknown
Weary of the light-filled world, I have sought that darker paradise; a
place of sanctuary wherein those dreams and desires are permitted their
playful, ethereal dance. A threshold is reached, to be entered by the
willing and independent choice of partners whom have been called forth
to pass beyond those boundaries of the mundane....
In verse I have written…
as she draws me within her garden of flaming rose fashioning sensuality
i linger a moment at the gates,
knowing the promised certainty, the anticipation of following a darker heaven;
towards that mortal paradise where dreams are sent in passion’s expression....
the fall of her deep descending hair across her breasts as we love
touches my face, becomes soul in-turning
her fragrance surrounds me, i am wandering in her beauty....
am
a quiet, sensitive, thoughtful partner. Am a writer of poetry, creative
essays, and romantic folktales. A solitude, a breath of creation, is
needed to fashion these individualistic works. This knowledge has been
used to fashion my inner world, the debitage and salvage-work, that
needs must be joined together into a union of personal meaning....
As a poet I know certain truths. Kahlil Gibran has written, “Love gives
naught
but itself and takes naught but from itself. Love possesses not nor
would it be possessed; For love is sufficient unto love. When you love
you should not say, "And think not you can direct the course of love,
for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. Love has no
other desire but to fulfil itself.” This recognition of the human
foundation of a way most precious may become a shared meaning between
two individuals. A truth of the heart, however, is necessary to make
this realization occur. And an intimate dialogue between partners must
be shared to awaken that experience, that journey, making life an
elegant dance....
Words upon words do not always express what the
inner person is until a meeting is arranged. I am a subtle Dom, meaning
that I guide towards an experience, and once that experience is
realized, awareness is shifted, changed, and reality is created anew....
The
way towards the self imposed goals, the attraction of self awareness,
the willingness to serve is what I ask from a submissive; I shall be
there to assure the promise of these qualities are assured. As Anais
Nin once wrote, “There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the
bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” Prepare
yourself for this sensual way of living and the journey begins....
The
woman I seek must posses compassion and passion. She must also
understand that relationships begin in trust, trust leads to romance,
romance leads to love, and love then leads to self liberation within
that intimate relationship....
A submissive that comprehends that
when the soul is free, one is able to give heart and sensual sexuality
to her Dominate. Someone that requires an intellectual structure to
their desires and can learn to redirect and appreciate the energy
released within a fated, sacred sexuality....
As for a
Dom/submissive relationship: Seeking a sincere, open, and receptive
Lady whose mind is agile, responsive, and able to develop a trusting
relationship with someone. A partnership is for naught without mutual
respect and trust. Not looking for the short term affair, most
assuredly be prepared to willingly accept that a partnership shall
become quite long lived....
As I am a serious individual, one
should be informed I shall treat a Lady with the same respect as is
shown to me; the same honesty that is revealed to me; and a sense of
unique, meaningful living that might be pursued. I am curious as to
what thoughts inform your life, how you live and the joy you bring to
that kind of living. En-Joy the journey. Speak to me of the absurdity
of life and I will listen enchanted and enraptured....
And a woman that enjoys these words:
Thus shall ye think of all this fleeting world;
A star at dawn, a bubble in a stream;
A flash of lightning in a summer cloud,
A flickering lamp, a phantom, and a dream.
[Diamond Sutra]
An essay:
A Fragile Reality
An edge to the mind, where reality begins to shimmer, is BDSM’s beginning. In order to reach that point, however, one needs to be prepared for the journey.
The intellect must be examined to see its veiled strengths, its hidden fears. If one refuses to remove the obstacles from acquiring a balanced mind, then, the journey can be hindered and waylaid. An individual can only become aware of those biases of the mind when honesty of character is present.
As everything in BDSM indicates, that inner world is constantly challenged. The practices in BDSM change the fundamental aspect of the mind. Perspective is altered and the midnight of the World is entered. And that is a profoundly, gloriously liberating experience of what some may misname as perversions. To bend the prohibitions a general society has created is more than living a “cheap kink”. It is imperatively concerned with the strictures of mindful balance, questioning one’s own culturally fashioned boundaries, and heightening one’s own awareness of their sexuality.
This midnight awareness where the intellect gains a fresh understanding of life, is mirrored in a Zen saying by Dogen, BDSM is like “…the moon reflected on the water. The moon does not get wet, nor is the water broken. Although its light is wide and great, the moon is reflected even in a puddle an inch wide. The whole moon and the entire sky are reflected in one dewdrop on the grass.” To go beyond the limits of the accepted, to step out of one’s boundaries is not a denial of one’s traditional values, rather it is an expression of one’s unique sexuality.
When one understands the workings of consciousness, the journey to that edge begins. One recognizes risk, one recognizes the need for shared trust. Dominant and submissive, travelers on a wayward path, keeping the mind balanced, the emotions and passions in tenuous and enticing discipline, may remain safe though seldom untouched.
Note: Relocatable. If you believe that distance ought to preclude a genuine partnership from unfolding, and serves as something detrimental to individual seeking and growth, then I feel for your lack of vision.
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Are people here truly being genuine, or just playing?
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So many here demand; so few describe what they can offer. As well, polite responses are always vastly appreciated, yet there are the negative ones too that lower my overall estimation of CM.
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There are certain days that one need not say a word on; today is one of them. If you cannot read my full profile and understand it, then...
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I am an "eclectic mystic", yet there is solid foundation for my belief. If one is an "eclectic" without firm ground, one tends to sink into the morass of public mockery.
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Amidst the ordinary, the mundane, dwells the immediacy of the moment. A life-choice is that which has chosen us, rather than an individual choosing life-choice. To give to that, to present that meaning to Life, instills integrity. Much as Oriah Mountain Dreamer has written,
"I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
“Yes.”."
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Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we
don't know how to replenish it's source. It dies of blindness and
errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of
weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.
~Anais Nin~
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If one's life is imbued with BDSM, then being involved with someone, no matter the circumstances, goes forward. The *life* is the life, not to be separated from Life. If you wait for the "perfect" moment, you may miss creating the "perfectability" of the present.
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