I wonder what I'm doing wrong here on CM. I try and communicate with ladies who I think may be a good match and nothing comes of it. Perhaps I have lost the ability to captivate with mere words. I wonder what it would take to engender a longer correspondence than on or two messages, or even the fact that some are not polite enough to reply with just a 'no, thanks".

I suppose it is the nature of the beast since the internet has opened so many eyes and created so many who have convinced themselves that they are what they are not. I will just sit back and see what happens for a while, I suppose.

I joined on the recommendation of a friend, and have attempted to make contact with other members without any success. I don't boss people around via emails without prior negotiation I won't call someone slut, cunt, or other debasing names unless they want it.

One's submission is a gift to her dominant. You might call me Sir when we meet, but Master or Daddy or other terms need to be earned rather than being an expected moniker.

I've been having a pretty lousy recent past. My wife, who I thought was going to be my property and play toy to do with as I wish.That has gone away. I miss terribly watching a sub/slaves bottom turning a bright red then a beautiful purple.. I need to find a willing playmate again.