'If you want to be in my life, come in. If you don't, leave. But don't stand in the door, you're blocking traffic.'

Beads, beads... and more beads. Damn that was fun!

... They say a picture is worth a thousand words. Is it pretty?

..And i can't get you out of my mind,
God knows how hard I've tried.

 “Maybe I'm too late to be your first. But right now, I'm preparing myself to be your LAST.”

all i can say is....

Welcome Home.

Getting older, you realize... I'm not high maintenance, I've just got low tolerance.

VIRGO - The One that Waits (August 23 to September 22) 
Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. A pushover. Loves to gamble and take chances. Needs to have the last say in everything. They think they know everything and usually do. Respectful to others but you will quickly lose their respect if you do something untrustworthy towards them and never regain respect. They do not forgive and never forget. The one and only. 7 years of bad luck if you do not forward.

~~ Gone Fishing ~~

Anyone wants to get a hold of me, knows how.

Take a deep breath and then count slowly to ten as you exhale, an let your mind go blank and let everything that is in your world disappear. Then open your eyes to read the words that are on this page, telling you of a love that is yours by simply opening up your heart. When you do your soul will take flight, as your body relaxes to be at peace. In your mind now you will see love, and hear love, and know love, for the very man that has feelings for you wants you in this life. The very one that wrote you this, and he wants you in all the best ways, for you to feel everything in his heart and know this is true love. With this also, comes these passions and desires held, for you to express now how you feel and what matters most to you, to understand an need and want and love that is deeply caressed. A chance to explore all your hidden desires and fantasies, for you to serve and be apart of each other, knowing you have the man of your dreams. So now, let the real you come out and let the very one that you love, know how you feel and how in everything you are, is in his life always. Be open to the all the possibilities that love through this new life shows you, being one last breath and letting go, being the new you for all time. As I hold a chain in my hand and at the end of it swings a small crystal, an as you look at it swaying, back and forth and back and forth, moving to the left and then moving to right and then back to left once again, your eyes start to get tired and you slowly begin to close them as they are too heavy. You then take a deep breath as you then count slowly backwards, from ten to one, an as you exhale, you let your mind go blank and let everything else in your world disappear. You then open your eyes once again being relaxed, as you read the words that are on this very page and memorize them, opening up your heart, as you will travel back to a simpler time in life. A time, when all you wanted to do, was to please the one that you were with. Even now, all you wish for is that time back once more, where when you were most happiest, is knowing, you made someone happy. You set aside yourself for the love of another, in doing whatever necessary, to bring passion, love, needs, wants and deepest pleasure, not only to you, but the love you are with. So now, let the real you come out and let the very one that you love, be in control of your thoughts, of your body and of your mind and soul. It is your time, to let him know, what joy you bring to his life and that you want more, and to be that woman you want to be, in giving up yourself to his control. As you stare deeply into my eyes, you can see into my heart and soul. Your mind will be free and see that all my thoughts are what you desire. In closing your own eyes, you inhale and then exhale counting down from ten, to open your eyes and begin your new life, of what it was suppose to be and now will. You are eager to be what you always wanted to, but were to afraid to and timid. You give yourself freely without reservation, for you know its truly what you want. You will do what only I like, as you will eat what I do, an you will go to bed when I do. You will be sexually free and not chained by anything, but only by what is told. You will not wear clothes in the house at all, period. You will only wear what is given. You will always be happy in whatever you do, never being angry to anyone ever. You will be free to open everything you have and give it freely to the man you love. You will only be given any sexual release, when just a particular word is given and that is from your Master. You will want only him, as he is the best that life has given to you, to keep forever happy. You will do as you're told and how you're told and never to be told twice in your duties and chores. So now, as you have become owned as property and will serve as a lifetime slave, you know in yourself, that this is what is meant for you, to be apart of and live the life. You are here now to please your Master in anyway shape or form, giving up your body and in all ways you have come full circle and realized what you are truly suppose to be. A happy, healthy, sexual submissive.

My advice.....
"Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward, is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation"

Don't Talk, Just Act.

Don't Say, Just Show.

Don't Promise, Just Prove.

 Every breath you take
Every move you make
Every bond you break
Every step you take
I'll be watching you

Every single day
Every word you say
Every game you play
Every night you stay
I'll be watching you

Oh can't you see
You belong to me...

The power of a gun can kill, and the power of fire can burn. The power of wind can chill and the power of the mind can learn. The power of anger can rage inside until it tears you apart, but the power of a smile.... can heal a frozen heart.

~Tupac

A Good Laugh...

A Good Spanking...

A Good Orgasm...

..Which do you deserve?

Heading into Ontario for a holiday.. taking the boy bass fishing to a private club.

Happy 4th ... safe travels to those on the path to discovery of new and interesting...

here is a thought... what is the easiest way to get under this Dominant's skin... ??

Like most I have worked hard to establish myself as a 'reasonable human-being'. Like most I have a Dominant streak that at times hinders my judgement, far be it for Me to think that I am always right in all ways. I've been known to put my foot in my mouth.. dam that hurts, not as limber as I once was. Even cut off my nose to spite my face.. trust Me, it ain't pretty. Over the years I've been able establish relationships with folks that generally see things the way I do and understand the so-called protocols of online relationships.

The way I see it... Dominants have a role.. .sub/slaves have their role.. and a switch.. well they are just messed up. LOL.. But I digress.. the point being that as FRIENDS, you can call Me by my given name.. as a respectful friend, you can call Me by Sir. As one that I own, there should be no doubt, or question as to my preference.  It's Master.

A prologue to today's thought.. It saddened Me to think that there has been many hours, days, weeks, months, even years put into a relationship and what name do they use....?? At least you know what they think of you.

A penny for your thoughts.. 50 cents a call.. sorry no refunds.

...sometimes you have to try not to care, no matter how much you do, because you can mean nothing to someone who means so much to you. It's not PRIDE... It's SELF-RESPECT.

PB....You know the drill.. At the BEEP, please leave a number where I can reach you..

Merry Christmas .. To Mine..~tearfulbliss

tearfulbliss is one lucky girl... on the 25th!!

Love does not dominate; it cultivates.

Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and fans fires.
~~Francois de La Rochefoucaul

“I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather. I possess tremendous power to make life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration, I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal. In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis is escalated or de-escalated, and a person is humanized or de-humanized. If we treat people as they are, we make them worse. If we treat people as they ought to be, we help them become what they are capable of becoming.”

"Correction does much, but encouragement does more."

“There is nothing worse than aggressive stupidity.”

~ Johan Wolfgang von Goethe ~

Control... and Chaos...are certainly between clearly defined boundaries which mark the acceptable range of actions.

Think of it as being a series of roads that may be taken from a single place to reach a destination. The driver is free to select whichever road to take to the final destination. One road may go over the hills or mountains, one through a valley, and one along the curves of a shoreline. In all cases, the different roads get you to the same place. The control aspect is how you drive, the decisions that you make. Knowing that all decisions must be made within the set boundaries of the road you are on.

The boundaries, or limits, take on many forms, some that are cautionary or soft, while some are hard and mark a hazard. The painted lines that show the lanes of the road are the soft limits that are set. These limits can be flirted with, much like driving along the solid line of the shoulder. The driver could try to move past them…as long as the conditions are right. Hard limits are different. These are the guard rails that prevent you from crashing over the cliff. Driving is nothing more than guiding your vehicle in a chaotic manner between sets of soft and hard limits. So hold on to the steering wheel, buckle your seatbelt...and enjoy the ride.

These thoughts also apply to O/our world, in which soft limits are set…and on occasion pushed, and hard limits are established, never to be violated. What takes place along the way can be unpredictable, but always safe within the hard limits. In this sense, control is not about forcing someone who is unwilling to accept your will, but rather guiding the willing to your desires. Once you know the limits, the path is clear.

Kinda makes you go.... hmmmmm.. Anyone seen my car keys??

~ what will it take to...? ~

... more random thoughts....

~ My leash is attached to the hand that guides her to the place where she will feel My strength and My love. When I take her by the hair and drag her to the altar of pain she will resist although in her heart she knows that resistance is futile and I will take her through the dance of dominance and submission until all of her defenses are exhausted and she cries for Me to take her. --author unknown--~

There is no doubt.. There should never be doubt.. You are Mine!

written for the one that knows where she belongs, ~wickedLust

This is the beginning of a new day. I have been given this day to use as I will... I can waste it, or use it. I can make it a day long to be remembered for its joy, its beauty and its achievements, or it can be filled with pettiness. What I do today is important because I am exchanging a day of my life for it...

I want you, I need you But there ain't no way I'm ever gonna love you Now don't be sad 'Cause two out of three ain't bad.....Meatloaf

SHOW HIM YOU CARE... "Reverse Branding".. what is it?? For a more detailed instructional response, please leave a charitable donation to the charity of your choice.. ie: Canadian Cancer Society, American Heart and Lung Association...etc....only serious inquiries will be answered.

When you need me but do not want me, then I must stay. When you want me but no longer need me, then I have to go ...... Nanny McPhee

... Where did I see that.. "he who dies with the most toys... WINS!! ..trouble is... You're still dead!

You just know its going to be a GREAT blowjob when she puts on a Breathe Right strip beforehand....

Suddenly.. a quiet amidst the storm. No more wonder, no more confusion, no more un-answered phone calls, messages, no more waiting for the second shoe to drop. The loneliness is peaceful.. if only for a moment.

Moments

A Moment If You Please

Moments Can Be Short

Moments Can Be Long

There Are Moments Of Joy

Moments Of Sorrow

Moments Of Passion

Moments You'll Never Forget

Moments You've Already Forgotten

Moments You Didn't Get

There Are Awkward Moments

Senior Moments

Moments Of Truth

And Momentary Lapses In Judgment

People Who Ask For A Moment

Share A Moment

I Need A Moment

You Got A Moment?

Wait A Moment

You Can Take A Moment

Make A Moment

Spoil A Moment

And If All The Stars Line In The Right Moment,

That Moment Can Be Perfect

Moments Can Define You

Moments Can Delight You

And Moments Can Change Your Life

Here's To The Moment

And Squeezing All You Can

Out Of Every Last Single One Of Them

Do you think about me? like I think about you
Do you sometimes stay awake at night?
Till the morning light? cos you don't know what to do
Do you think about me? like I think about you
Do you toss and turn does your heart still burn?
For the passion we went through

checks My leash...DAMN...she got away!

I am a dominant man. I am just that.
I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser.
I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body.
I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women.
Yet to you, I am Master.

I am your Master only after earning your trust and I embrace your submissiveness.
I have looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions.
You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions.
You tell me of the needs of your heart and body.
You have given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honor.

You are a woman.
You are not weak or inferior because of it.
You are a treasure to be cherished.

We are not equal.
I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you.
You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart.

Your belief in me gives me courage and direction.
Your strength disperses my doubt.
Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts.

We are not equal. We are halves of a whole.
We compliment each other and make each other complete.

My desire to dominate you is instinctive.
It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine.
We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.

You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood.
You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion.
You expect a man to stand strong and be a man.
You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man.

In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart.
You submit because I have earned your trust.
Because I have opened my heart and soul to you.
Because I have listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life; you have given me dominance over you.

What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest gift a woman could give a man.
You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me.
Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility.

I accept this from you with humility and joy.
I understand the rarity and purity of this gift.
I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind.
I dominate you only because you have allowed it.
I dominate only because you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and heart you are raised above all other woman, and all the treasures of the earth. What you give freely can not in reality be bought.

You are Mine, and I am yours.
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