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Hetero Male Dominant, 59,  Central, Florida
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Spent several years in the lifestyle. Looking for new slave partner for longterm and possible live-in in due time if theres a connection. And once this pandemic settles down...

I can be mild (think strict and loving daddy or more extreme. Depends on the fit and the connection. You will probably see both sides of Me anyway...

I am educated, private, physically affectionate and demanding. What you see is what you get with me, always... Highly creative and value the same.

There is a very spiritual side or aspect to my interests here on BDSM. I am very much interested in the mind-body-spirit connection and find that Ds and Ms relationships are even more powerful when thats incorporated.

I am not bald, but shaved.

My dynamic is similar to a Gorean household.

Mind, Body and Soul, eh?

In my belief about the structure of the human, I cannot own your soul. It is the mistaken wish of those who believe they have more power than what is possible for a human to have. A human, no matter how powerful on this plane, does not have the capacity to own the soul of another. At worst, it is arrogant and delusional. At best, an uneducated statement that demonstrates an expression of a phantastical need for power.

The soul of a human, I believe, is that original spark of the Universe that inhabits us all and makes us unique. But it is not owned by anyone other than the vessel that carries it.

I cannot own your mind. I might possess it, control it, manipulate it, free it, encourage it, expand, but I cannot own it. And it is my responsibility as your Master or Dom (if I were) to grow it, make it the best it can be. But then I am a Master that does not wish for nor would tolerate a mindless bimbo kind of slave or sub. Your mind is what controls your body, your behaviors, your attitudes, etc. Your mind should be actively engaged in not only how to best please your Master, but also in how to be the best person and woman you can be. Anything less is just a mind-game... And diminishes both you as a person, and My slave or sub.

Your body? I can in a practical and consensual sense own your body. I can brand it, mark it, tattoo it, control it, tease it, cause it pain, or bliss, etc. But this is just a construct lifestylers have created in order to perpetuate their power positions and constructs within a lifestyle relationship.

The truth is, as a Master, I do not wish to own your body, mind, or soul. I want you to give it to Me because you trust Me to make you the best you can be - not only to please Me, but for your own growth.

About you

Attractive, slim or average build, around 56 or shorter... I especially like petite women...
Long hair is a plus.
Love eyes... Your eyes have to speak to Me... color is unimportant...
You are educated, have a sense of humour, are social...
I prefer bi women as at some point there may be a sister slave.

You are also available emotionally for a real connection. Not interested in just role playing or kink or hookups.

Be yourself, be real, have a good heart, and we will get along very well...

You will be a domestic and sexual slave as well as assist in the business I have which is very much related to the BDSM lifestyle.

If you read the er, you know what I would want from you... and communication and honesty is the key to everything...












 Dominant Male



 6' 2"

 190 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 Coffee Shops

 You wearing my collar

 Being Massaged

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse







 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship

 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops

 Rear End Play

 Domestic Service

 Erotic Hypnosis (Expert)

 Erotic touch

 Housework Service

 Placing you on a leash

 Maid / Butler Service

 Spanking you

 Science Fiction




 Photography (Expert)



 Psychology (Expert)

 The Occult

 Writing (Expert)


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Classical Music

 New Age Music

 Taoism (Expert)


 Art Galleries

 Bird Watching

 Fine Dining



 Renaissance Faires






 Horseback Riding


 Ultimate Frisbee





 Corner Time

 Electrical Play



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community


 Hair Pulling

 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving)


 Obedience Training


 Selecting the clothes you wear

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play


 Speech Restrictions

 Suspension Bondage


 Vacuum Stimulation


 Wax Play


 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games


 Web Surfing

 Alternative Medicine



 Body Art

 Candle Making









 Paranormal Phenomena


 1950s Lifestyle

 Old Guard

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Working Out

 Alternative Music



 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Folk Music


 New Wave

 Nineties Music




 Rock Music

 Seventies Music




 Feng Shui





 Modern Paganism













 Masks (Wearing)

 Role Playing

 TV News

 Curious About:




 Bar Hopping



 Female Led Relationships

 Female Sovereignty


 Collaring Ceremonies

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Journal Entries:
5/26/2023 4:44:16 AM

Well, seems the fakes have found their way to CS.

Disappointing. Unlike alt, most of the profiles for years seemed to be real.

Not anymore.

Google lens or tineye is a quick and easy way to find them. Stolen pics = fake profile. Don't know why the admins don't build in a to verify. It's an easy thing to do. 

Anyway, I'm on a rant.

REALLY wanted to find a potential sister slave for this weekend. It's my anniversary with my slave.

She would have been pleased. And surprised. LOL.

4/18/2023 4:59:27 AM

Ok. To answer a few questions.
I am educated, with a Master's degree in psychology.
My primary interest is erotic hypnosis and Relyfe programming.
I actually do know what I am doing with it, and its effects are fascinating.

Looking for a bi female, petite build, who is looking for the same.

Total mental domination and TPE.

Not into games or just kinky play.

Don't do hookups or 1 time play parties.

Looking for real connection for LTR.

If interested, I look forward to hearing from you.

1/25/2022 7:14:34 AM

My slave is now well established. 

We are looking for a potential sister slave for LTR.

Hope to hear from likely and interested.

You are:

  • bi-sexual
  • slim/petite build
  • serious about the lifestyle (this is not just kinky play for us)
  • not looking for dumb blonde bimbo type

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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