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| I am a dominant, sadistic male. As I continue my journey in the Lifestyle, I am endlessly curious about developing new skills and exploring my desire to push a sub/bottom to her limits. In many ways I feel like I have been and will be on on this journey my entire life.
In my 40's, I have aged to the point where I realize that dominance and caring can mix. That the difference between a dominant and a submissive is that while a submissive desires to serve, a Dom desires to take care of and to protect.
I am constantly in the process of learning. What I want/need/crave is the sense of complete connection that comes when you are playing with the right person. When the world becomes only you and them even though you are surrounded by people and chaos. It is a sense that I can touch only briefly, but that I can remember long after each play session has ended.
I am looking for a submissive woman to share Play sessions and to explore the boundries of a true D/s relationship. I am active in the local BDSM community and enjoy public play.
Here are some quotes that speak to me:
"The greatest challenge we face as humans lies within...for that is where the monster called ego stares into its mirror, listens for the sound of its name, and mouths the words that will serve it."
"Respect that, without power offered, none can be managed. Do not shame yourself by imposing disciplines or protocols on those unwilling, or unable. Mastery is not a right, but a consensual agreement between the informed."
*LT Morrison*
"It's that shiver of pain that we can see moving through somebody's body. It's that flinch of anticipation as they wait for the next cruel torment. It's the knowledge that what we are doing is causing an effect upon the person we are doing it to. It is about control...It's about the love and connection a sadist has with their masochist; knowing that they are enduring everything that is being given them. It's about taking yourself to the edge of losing control of yourself but not losing control of yourself...And when it is all over and the implements of destruction have been put away it is knowing that you just took yourself and another person to a different world."
*TheFinalHour*
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