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There are times in everyone's lives when they have to adjust their horizons. This is one of those times. I've spent the last ten years or so learning my strengths and capabilities; the areas in which I need improvement and practice, and delineating my preferences and needs. I've made many friends; some I'll cherish forever, while others have drifted away, but none of them will ever be regretted. Unfortunately, I've also made mistakes and enemies...it's a human condition, so I'm simply trying to learn from these so I don't repeat them. (Bet you thought a Dominant wouldn't admit to fallibility...but if they don't....run.)
I'm not going to put limitations on who might attract me insofar as hair color, age, race, body style, etc. To do so denigrates and limits each person reading this, and that's not my intention. I want someone who's attracted to me...and who's attractive to me, and I don't know who that will be. I'd hate to let her slip through my hands because of a checklist.
There are some preferences, however, that I'm very comfortable with mentioning; intelligence, wit, charm, sense of humor, passion and open-mindedness to name a few. No matter how classic a beauty a woman might be, if she can't spark my imagination, if she can't make me laugh, if she can't challenge me intellectually (or at least keep up), if she can't communicate openly and clearly, and if she has no life of her own to share with me, I can't imagine being with her for even one moment.
If you recognize yourself in the admittedly rather vague image I'm describing, then feel free to make contact. I greatly believe in courtesy and friendliness, so there's no need to fear you'd be dealing with someone who'll be caustic or cruel to other seekers. I'm a sensual sadist...not an asshole.
I'm not an "edge player", and your level of experience isn't a factor in this. I believe in taking things slowly to a point, and adjusting activities to the level of my partner.
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