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| Because I have many friends on here I am not removing My profile but I am letting everyone know that, because of some serious shakeups in My life, I will not be seriously considering taking on the responsibility of a sub/slave/lg in the near future. I will be taking a sabbatical until I can get some solid answers to the reasons for My soul searching. Thanks for reading and understanding.
I'm 56 years old, been in the lifestyle since around 1985. That was the first time that I had a sub who was able to tell me that there was a name for the way I lived and interacted with people. I've had a few subs and slaves since then and even a lg. I've mentored a few more. I do have references. I'm not a sadist. I'm a disciplinarian. I do play in public at times, and I've been an active member of the local munch group since its inception about 8 years ago. I'm a fierce advocate of SSC, and I don't believe in bringing children, animals, scat or blood into my playtime. I'm D/D free although, I do drink alcohol. I don't mind a sub who likes the occasional recreational drug but, moderation is important. I reserve the right to cut off usage that I feel is excessive. I believe in mental as well as physical bondage. While I am looking for a LTR, I'm not adverse to playing a bit on the side. I actually like it a lot. I work in Africa about 6-8 times/year and when I'm home, I have nothing but free time. I own my own home. I hate writing a resume for a profile. I shouldn't have to sell myself. If someone sees something in my profile that they like, they should just drop a line. I answer all emails as a matter of courtesy. Dominants don't need to be rude to dominate. Too many feel that dominance means tyranny. While I have had many subs respect me, I don't feel that I've ever had one fear me. That doesn't mean that a look of fear never entered their eyes when I had reason to pick up a flogger. The PERFECT woman would be shorter than 5'5", not thin to the point of emaciation, large chested, red haired and crave giving oral and getting anal. She wouldn't like wearing clothes unless necessary for social functions, and she would love going out on the boat at a moment's notice. This isn't a perfect world, and I truly don't expect that perfect one to magically appear on My doorstep. The only real criteria is that she must be female, and live to serve.
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I'm getting excited! A little over 42 days until Beyond Leather! I'm looking forward to seeing old friends again from all over the world. I can't wait for the Lube Wrestling Theatre, or the brand new Kink Olympics, and the ever enjoyable Cigars Under the Stars. Not to belittle all of the presentations. I'm happy to see that they have a few presentations on hypnosis added this year. I can't wait! |
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YAY!!! I have the room booked and I am registered for Beyond Leather! I have been going for a few years and I feel that this is the BEST fetish function that I've ever attended. If you plan on attending, please feel free to look Me up. If you do not plan to attend, WHY? I look forward to seeing all of My kinky friends for 4 days of full immersion kink. |
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Ladies I am confused about something... If you have hard limits listed that I have as a "Love" or if you have an age limit posted that is way below what My age is, WHY would you write to ME? I don't believe in wasting My time or yours so I don't write to you. Remember that they are YOUR limits that you have posted. If you might be interested in trying something, PLEASE don't list it as a "Hard Limit" or think that I might change My ways and do without something that I have listed as a "Love". Is it possible that men and Doms are not the only ones who don't bother to read a complete profile? Ok, I am now off of My soapbox. I wish you all much luck in your searches.
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I have been saying something to anyone who would listen for quite some time and I find it refreshing to see that a feminist has put in print what I've been saying all along. I am sharing it here...
http://www.guerrillafem.com/2014/01/bdsm-and-feminism/
My thanks to Lachrista Greco for posting this! |
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I guess when CM became CS My profile pictures went away. I have reloaded them and will wait to see if they stay on the profile this time. |
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WELL!!! I had a pic up for Beyond Leather and CM took it down. Said that it was for a competing site. Such is life. I will be going to Beyond Leather and I look forward to once again meeting up with the REAL people on here. |
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Ya'know? I'd like to know what's wrong with having "Sir" as part of My name. I had the name SirConch before I started having profiles on fetish sites. It is my name in both vanilla and BDSM. Why are there so many profiles that say that someone wont talk with Me because of a name that I chose years ago? Can someone elucidate for Me? |
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I guess that I'm just too old fashioned. I read all of these profiles and journal entries and I keep noticing that many people say that sex isn't the primary objective. The various ways that they say it almost implies that sex isn't an option. I am a Dom. While I enjoy being in the Dom position, and the power play is of utmost importance, what use is being Dom if your will has to stop at sex? That's like telling the most powerful man in the free world that he can't get oral sex from an intern without getting in trouble. If one has power, it is his DUTY to use it as it pleases him. OK... I'm off my soapbox now.
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I now have a new favorite author, Jacqueline Carey. She is not as prolific as John Norman but, to me, she has a much better grasp of the English language. If you have not read any of her works, I highly recommend you try to find one! |
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Well, the subbie has finally been told that she has to leave. She has been given a month to find other living arrangements. I wish her luck but, I can't continue to support her habits and pretend that it is ok. Sometimes we can get too attached to our subbies and allow for things that we wouldn't accept otherwise. That chapter is now closed. I'm truly going to miss what we used to have. Such is life. |
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Well, I've been wondering what the Woodshed is all about and now I know. What a great group of people! On a different subject, I was wondering about this whole blocking thing on CM. You have some great conversations with a person and then she gets collared. Ok, no more communication... I understand that. I see her new profile tonight and it no longer says taken, so I write to her again to wish holiday greetings. I'm blocked. I'm actually writing this for her to possibly read. Maybe she doesn't know that I'm still blocked. Friends are too dear to lose for whatever reason. Ah well.... Happy holidays everyone! |
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| Age: 28 |
| Chartsworth,
Georgia |
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